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BOARD: Topics of Interest for Adoptive Families » Other Topics for Adoptive Parents

TOPIC: I would love to give a child the love it deserves...

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anonymousPosted: Feb 24, 2005 10:17:55 AM
I just want to say that it is your deep love and concern for your child that will give you the incredible strength that you will need to go through with the adoption. My husband and I have the home, the family and friends and the financial security you mention, but no little one to fill our hearts and fulfill our dreams. I respect what you are doing and can only imagine how hard it is. I pray that your child gets everything you desire for him/her.

AnonymousPosted: Jan 16, 2005 06:03:13 PM
just because a child is placed for adoption doesnt mean that it is unloved by the birthmother and father, perhaps they simply cannot financially support a child... unfortunately, some people are not born into money, nor had the resources to make enough money to support a child. it is incredibly unselfish of a birthmother to give her child up to someone else. it is the hardest decision i will ever make, and will probably regret for as long as i live. but at least he will be able to attend college, and ahve a nice home, and wonderful friends and people who also love him as much as myself. to assume that a child is unloved because it is placed for adoption is selfish, and ignorant.

Valerie FarrisPosted: Dec 25, 2004 12:15:14 AM
I would love to give a child the love it deserves and needs there are too many children out there that don’t get the love that they need. I don’t not know anything about the adoption process nor know the basic requirements. But I do know that I have the love and unselfishness to have a child. I was wondering if anyone knew where a good place was to start.



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