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Jason Schwartz (Booth at birth)	Posted: Jan 18, 2005 01:50:41 PM I have no idea who my biological father is. My mother married another man when I was 5. I was shortly afterwards adopted by him. I was then told when I was 13, by her, that he was not my father. I do not remember the adoption process except that I sort of remember a judge asking me what I thought of my stepfather. Unfortunately since then my mother has refused to talk to me about it. I was wondering how I could go about finding out his information without needing her consent. I was born in MO. and adopted in 1979. I know that in order for my stepfather to adopt me the biological father would have to have been notified by certified letter. Can anyone please help me to begin this process?

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While babies are unfortunately raised worldwide in less-than-adequate conditions, and many amazing women somehow find the means to do so, it takes resources and access to proper care to provide for a child.

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Living Expenses - Why?

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TOPIC: I want to find my biological father