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| Pam | Posted: Jun 17, 2007 06:29:31 PM
I can't imagine what you are going through. I will keep you and your little one in my prayers. My husband I are not able to have children because there is a genetic problem and he is sterile. I will be 45 in October and I have prayed that no matter how it happens I would want to be a mother. Hearing your situation breaks my heart. I have even reached a point of desire for a child that I found myself not caring if I were in your situation. I hope all works out for your family and little one.
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| Michelle | Posted: Apr 08, 2005 03:50:07 PM
My name is michelle and I work for American Adoptions. I am also a birth mother who placed my son for adoption when I was 7 years old. I am not sure if you are considering adoption at this time but if you and your husband/boyfriend decide that you would like to look into it further please let me know at michellew@americanadoptions.com or please call 1-800-Adoption and we can provide you with some information. Thank you for your time and I am very sorry about your difficult situation. I wish you the best.
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| Cheryl | Posted: Feb 26, 2005 02:20:37 AM
I have a friend who recently gave birth to a baby. She was also raped. I would love to offer you support during this difficult time. My name is Cheryl
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| kate | Posted: Feb 01, 2005 04:59:53 PM
Oh my goodness...I want you to know that 1.You are a strong woman to ask for help.2. It is not your fault & 3.I am praying for you!!! The answer to your questions cant be answered by me because I am not trained in advising you, However I want you to know that if your partner doesnt want to help w/ this...he isnt worthy of you!!! You have been through enough...keep your head up, and pray!!!! All my best wishes go to you!!!
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| Susy | Posted: Jan 31, 2005 11:30:02 PM
i'm sorry for wat happen to u. but i have a question how do u know when ur pregnant? sometimes every early in the morin like around 4-5 am in the morin i be having bad taste in my mouth and i feel like just throwin up does that mean i'm pregnant?
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| Terrie | Posted: Jan 30, 2005 01:01:07 AM
Rebecca I can only imganine your emotional pain at finding yourself in this situation. I can only offer my shoulder to cry on if needed or someone to chat with if that is something you need at this time. I am an mom to 4 al of whom we have been blessed with being able to adopt. If I can be of any help thru email etc feel free to write me. Take care of yourself have you visited a rape crisis center? I think they could offer you the support of others whom have been thru the horror and trauma of a rape. Best wishes
Terrie
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| Kara J | Posted: Jan 28, 2005 11:11:24 AM
I've personally never been in your sitaution, but would be more than happy to lend a listening ear. A very close friend of mine was in a simualr sitaution (not married, but ina long realtionship with someone). If you would like to, you may e-mail. I feel so bad for you and know you must be frantic! Please know that you arein my thoughts and prayers..... Kara
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| Rebecca9910 | Posted: Jan 28, 2005 08:23:46 AM
I was raped 2 months ago, and now find myself pregnant. I'm 30 years old, so not a typical situation I guess. I have two children already. My boyfriend/husband won't accept a baby that isn't his own I'm sure. We aren't doing well anyway. He doesn't know of the situation. I'm not sure what to do. Has anyone out there had to deal with something like this? I just feel so alone and afraid.
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