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BOARD: Adoptee Forum » Other Topics for Adoptees.
TOPIC: Writing A letter to Your Birth Parents
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| mariie | Posted: May 04, 2005 12:02:34 PM hello i am a 29 yr old mother of 4 beautiful girls my first 2 was adopted out . as far as what u where sayin about what to write ur real perants just be honest, open, i cant what for the day to see or hear from them again. just as ur real perants feel too. if u want to write back with any other Q. then go right ahead. | ||
| Here to help | Posted: Apr 11, 2005 03:31:59 PM Okay, take a minute. Think about all the things you want to tell them. If you are not sure what to say start with the basics.(your likes and dislikes.). Tell about your life now, and what you hope to acomplish in the future. i know this sounds crazy but act like you are talking to your grandmother who has not seen you in a long time. Then if you start talking with them more write more personal things. Write what you feel comfortable writing. The more pressure you put on yourself, the more nervous and crazy it will make you. Dont be afraid to add into your letter just how confused you are about what you | ||
| Debra | Posted: Mar 23, 2005 03:45:06 PM I have been asked to write letters to my birth parents that can be givin to them once they are found by the case worker. I'm not sure what I should say, I don't want to overwhelm them by saying to much but also I don't want to seem cold by saying to little. If any one could help me I'd be greatful. Debra | ||
