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| Pat | Posted: Jul 22, 2005 02:55:02 AM I understand you're saying you're not looking for your "Daddy". I'm adopted, too, and when people ask me, "Did you ever meet your real Mom or real Dad?", I'm quick to point out that the two people who conceived me are "birthparents", not my real Mom or real Dad. I always explain that the real Mom and real Dad are the ones who raised you, loved you, took care of you when you were sick, educated you, fed you, etc. You know what I'm talking about, I'm sure.
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| Brandi P Montanez | Posted: Jun 28, 2005 06:53:36 AM There is so much to say but so little to say at the same time. I am not looking for my "daddy". I have a daddy I am looking for the man that got my bio mother pregnant with me strictly for medical reasons. I don't want to be friends I don't want money and I am not giving him money. I just want to know what his medical history is and what is genetically wrong with his bloodline. I have traced on illness to my mothers side and most things I have problems with are hers. But those are illnesses given by the mother I do have an illness that is given by the father... I really don't want to talk about that though... I want to know what i could give my children that could be from his side... Besides thie thing I know about.... I want to know my family tree as well but once more not to be this mans buddy just to know. I am still searching but I am hitting dead ends frequently. I will update this later.
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