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| Siobhan | Posted: Sep 02, 2004 05:55:18 PM Hi There,
I think it is wonderful that you are thinking about your son. Have you meet your bfather? I do believe that you should meet him first and see how your relationship is with him, although in my experience it is 17 years later and I still really don't know my bfather. He is a nice man, but I don't feel as connected to him as I do my bmother. Anyhow, yes I think you it would be in the interest of you and your son to meet this person. It doesn't mean that you have to like him and if you do, BONUS.
I wish you well in your decisions and send you lots of love.
Siobhan (adopted child)
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| Phyllis | Posted: Jul 19, 2004 09:24:08 AM Hey, I was adopted. I have since located my birth mother and know where my birth father is. I am debating on contacting him simply to give my son another grandfather if Bgrandfather is receptive to this obviously. My son only has one grandfather and grandmother as my husbands parents both passed away at early ages.
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