 | Dear Birth Parent(s),
Our names are Denise and Louis, and we are very grateful and happy that you
are considering us as adoptive parents for your child. We realize that this must
be a very difficult decision for you and are thankful that you decided on
adoption. It is through your selfless decision that we may realize our dream of
raising a family.
We have been married for over 6½ years and have been trying to have a child for
quite some time. Unfortunately, we have not been blessed with a child of our
own. We have always wanted to have a family and know we would make a great mom
and dad for your child. We have been blessed in all aspects of our lives,
especially with each other, and feel we can provide a very loving home in which
to raise your child.
Denise enjoys playing games with her nieces & nephews (i.e., Candyland & Puppy
Racers) & just being around them, in general. It's like one big slumber party
when both nieces sleep over & they play dress-up! Louis is more active with his
nephews, who like to play around on the floor with him. It's not always fun &
games, though, & when things get too rough, we know when to say enough (which is
usually not the kids' decision of choice!). We both long for the time when we
can be more than just fun "Aunt Denise & Uncle Louis" to a child. We can't wait
to be "Mommy & Daddy". We hope to experience the happy times, like first
birthdays, first steps, first words, first dance, first kiss, & all the other
wonderful "firsts", as well as the sad times, like first day of school & away
from us & first broken heart.
We both knew that we were meant to be parents and that it didn't matter how we
started our family, only that we had one. Adoption is very common in both of our
lives, as we have adopted cousins on both sides of our families. We will be
devoted parents and your child will be given every opportunity in life.
We have a strong circle of family & friends, and they are eager to welcome your
child into our family. Church is also a large part of our lives. We go to Mass
every Sunday and Louis is a 4th degree Knight of Columbus, a Christian
organization which serves the greater community. It is without doubt that any
child brought into our lives will be loved, not only by us, but by everyone we
love, as well.
Louis has been labeled as the kids' favorite playmate because he interacts so
well with children. Whatever the kids want to do, Louis is up for the challenge.
Whether it's wrestling on the floor, or playing hockey in the schoolyard, Louis
is game. Denise is a very loving and nurturing person and the kids flock to her.
When visiting family, you can usually find her reading to her nieces or nephews.
When one or more of the kids spend the day or weekend with both Denise & Louis,
they can be found at the bowling alley or the park or the zoo.
We enjoy spending time at home together and love to play with our dog, Trouble
and our cat, Ebony. They are very friendly and interact well with children, as
well as with each other. We try to vacation every year, either at a resort,
sight-seeing, or just visiting family and friends. We look forward to exploring
vacation spots such as Sesame Place and Storybook Land with your child.
Our families are looking forward to the holidays we will share with your child.
Christmas Day is usually at our house. We start decorating right after
Thanksgiving just to be finished in time. Everything at the table must be
homemade – from the bread to the fresh apple sauce to the potato pie to the
cheesecake & rice pudding. God forbid anything is store-bought! New Year's Eve
is ALWAYS at Louis' parents' house. Family & friends come by all night – it's
like an open house! Louis' Dad takes out his musical instruments (some of them
homemade) & everyone sings & has a blast! One of our favorite holidays is
Halloween. We sometimes dress in costume & sit on the front porch to hand out
candy to Trick-or-Treaters. We have more fun getting into our costumes than the
kids do! We know we will be able to raise your child into a happy, well-rounded
adult. Your child will be given every opportunity. Whether he or she wants to
join the debate club or the football team, we will support that decision.
We are both very blessed to have huge extended families that are extremely
excited for us and have already opened their hearts to any child we adopt. Most
importantly, we would give your child all the love he or she needs and more,
while providing a nurturing home and great family support.
We want to thank you for considering us as parents for your child and wish you
all the best as you make this important decision.
Sincerely,
Louis & Denise
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