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Personal Adoption Story

Todd and Nicole's adoption story

Our journey to Autumn Praise Sullens started several years ago.  God had blessed us with two beautiful boys and I really thought I felt complete.  Boy, or should I say, girl, was I wrong!  My husband and I began praying for orphans on a regular basis after receiving mail that gave data on the number of orphans around the world.  About a year later, we were starting the process to adopt from China!  We live in GA so naturally we called several agencies here and never felt a real connection.  One night, I searched the web and found an agency that had a pay as you go policy with different levels of help in each step - I needed ALL the help I could get.  I began saving every penny - I would just like to apologize to my family for the numerous 50 cent chicken pot pies. So, the next day, Todd and I called Americans Adopting Orphans.  I first talked to co-director Cindy that afternoon and then Todd talked to co-director Dave that evening for a whole hour!  I was folding clothes while Todd was talking, but believe me, I was multi tasking - I was hanging on every word Todd was saying.  The last words he said were "Dave, we do not want to waste anymore time, how do we start?"  I was jumping up and down!!!  We were on our way and I was falling in love with a baby that I knew nothing about.  

We went through all of the steps with the full support of AAO.  I remember calling Dave one day and asking him just shy of 100 questions.  I remember calling Ed one day to ask him to re-assure me that people who are not millionaires can really adopt.  I remember calling Cindy several times for pep talks during the waiting process - she has a way of making me laugh.  I got very close to Jennifer - I cried when she called to say our dossier was ready to fly to China.  It was my birthday present that year!  I remember Amy calling to reassure me that our plane reservations had not been cancelled and I will never forget Richard in China guiding us all the way to our precious girl. 

The wait for Autumn was difficult, but she was well worth the wait.  I had read a lot of books about adoption to try to be as best prepared as possible.  I remember reading to try not to cry when you get your baby as not to frighten the child.  I thought - no, problem, I hardly shed a tear when the boys were born (too tired).  Well, then the day comes that we had dreamed of for so long.  I am standing in a room with 2 other families.  All the dads have the vidoe camaras going and all the moms eagerly wait for the babies to come in the room.  Then the moment arrives and the babies are carried in  and I instantly make eye contact with Autumn.  She is not crying, the ONLY baby not crying.  The other moms are not crying and guess who is balling - yours truly.  I think the reason Autumn did not cry because she could tell her mother was a wreck and one of us needed to hold the other one up.  We had an instant bond right from the start.  She is my only child that I held first (c-sections).  I love her more than words can express.  She is a gift from God, my little Autumn Praise.    
 
Todd and Nicole
Hamilton, GA