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Birth Fathers: An IntroductionThe father of your baby may or may not choose to be a part of your decision-making process. Whether he is supportive or not, you are not alone – many women, just like you, have experienced situations similar to yours! Remember, adoption laws vary by state, so it is important that you speak with an adoption professional about the laws specific to your state. If the father of your baby is supportive and willing to work with you as a teammate throughout this process, this is a wonderful thing. However, if he is less than supportive of the concept of adoption, do not feel discouraged. Though each state has different laws on “birth father’s” rights, as long as a professional – like American Adoptions – ensures that everything is carried out according to the law, there is little an unsupportive father can do to stand in the way of what you feel is best. Below, we have listed several of the types of birth father situations American Adoptions sees. Maybe your situation is like on of these, perhaps you are experiencing a combination of these types and, perhaps, what you are going through is not listed here at all. Please remember, you can call to talk to any of us, anytime. After all, that’s why we’re here!
Birth Father is Different from Present Boyfriend/Husband Finding true love is rare, at best. That’s why sometimes, relationships end, even upon finding out of a pregnancy.
You may be afraid of how carrying someone else’s child might affect your current relationship, or there may be conflicts between your baby’s father and your boyfriend/husband. As you may have guessed, American Adoptions has vast experience with these circumstances, and can work with you on ways that you can minimize its effect.
Our goal is to be here to help you, regardless of your relationship situation. Your Adoption Specialist can help you speak to the father of the baby and your boyfriend/husband regarding your pregnancy and adoption decision. It is important to remember to take care of yourself during this time, as well. Be open with your Adoption Specialist and share any thoughts/feelings/stress you may be experiencing. She will be here to support you and help guide you through your adoption journey. She can also assist the father of the baby and your boyfriend/husband during this time and help them work through and emotions they may be experiencing, as well as answer any questions they may have about the adoption.
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