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Jared & Allyson

We have been preparing to adopt children since the day we met and are so excited that the opportunity is finally here! We are looking forward to sharing a life of travel and laughter and food and family with the child who comes into our life. It is an honor you are reading our profile and we hope you see the love and the joy we have for life and each other.

About Us

Jared
Allyson
Job
Major in the U.S. Army
Librarian
Education
Master's Degree
Master's Degree
Children
None
Relationship
Legally Married

What Made Us Who we are Today

Our Little Family

As a teenager, Allyson suffered debilitating pain that no one could diagnose. At the same time, her family decided to live and travel in a motor home. As they traveled the country, seeing historic sites, meeting new people, and exploring new places, she also went to new doctors, hoping for a diagnosis. She was finally diagnosed with endometriosis. At 24, she had to have an emergency hysterectomy to save her life. All of the pain and struggles she faced, combined with her love of travel, cemented in her a fierce determination to never let circumstances prevent her from achieving her goals and from experiencing the joy life has to offer.

Jared says that being raised in a large family, as well as his beliefs, have made him who he is. His family of seven moved around quite a bit, usually in Utah, as his father’s employer transferred him, or when changing employment. Jared learned to work hard at a young age, earning money by mowing lawns and selling baked goods around his neighborhood. As a 17-year-old high school senior, he enlisted in the Army Reserves. After serving a mission for our church, he finished college and was commissioned as an officer in the US Army. Since then, he has lived all over the world, and continues working hard at everything he does.

Cultural Diversity

Allyson grew up in California, Chicago, Miami, Arizona, and Maine. She learned Spanish in Miami, Russian in Chicago, and French in Maine. Including people from other cultures in her life has always come naturally. Jared’s job has given him the opportunity to travel around the world, making friends and learning about so many other cultures. As a family, we embrace the cultures of each of the places we travel, buying artwork, eating local foods, learning languages, and making friends everywhere we go. Our home is a hodgepodge, with papyrus scrolls from Egypt interspersed with family photos on the walls, Chinese ceramics on bookcases, next to Greek sculptures, and Hawaiian wood carvings. As a librarian, Allyson has collected books on every culture and era, and focuses on providing multi-cultural materials in every library she works in. We believe it’s vital for a child of ours to learn about and appreciate not only their own native culture, but the cultures of others.

Education We will Provide

So Happy Together

We both believe education is incredibly important and plan to encourage our children to complete as much education as they can in order to succeed in the field of their choice. However, while we both have Master’s degrees and will encourage our children to strive academically, we recognize that not every person needs to have an advanced degree. As an educator, Allyson firmly believes that a four-year college degree is not for everyone, but that everyone should choose a profession that will enable them to provide for their families, contribute to society, and provide a sense of accomplishment in their daily lives. Whether that’s being a doctor, lawyer, plumber, electrician, or chef, going to a trade school, serving an apprenticeship, or going to med school, that’s up to them. We will provide the encouragement and support they need, and help our child get whatever schooling necessary for them to be their best self and lead a happy, productive life.

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Having Fun in Austria
Having Fun in Austria
Exploring France with Anna
Exploring France with Anna
Taking in the Scenery in Israel
Taking in the Scenery in Israel
Exploring Stockholm
Exploring Stockholm
Snuggles with Our Niece
Snuggles with Our Niece
With Our Sweet Dog, Anna
With Our Sweet Dog, Anna
Checking Out Mt. Vesuvius
Checking Out Mt. Vesuvius
Visiting Our Family in Wyoming
Visiting Our Family in Wyoming
Overlooking the City in Budapest
Overlooking the City in Budapest
Family Reunion
Family Reunion
Beach Time in France
Beach Time in France
We Can't Wait to Be Parents!
We Can't Wait to Be Parents!
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Having Fun in Austria
Having Fun in Austria
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Exploring France with Anna
Exploring France with Anna
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Taking in the Scenery in Israel
Taking in the Scenery in Israel
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Exploring Stockholm
Exploring Stockholm
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Snuggles with Our Niece
Snuggles with Our Niece
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With Our Sweet Dog, Anna
With Our Sweet Dog, Anna
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Checking Out Mt. Vesuvius
Checking Out Mt. Vesuvius
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Visiting Our Family in Wyoming
Visiting Our Family in Wyoming
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Overlooking the City in Budapest
Overlooking the City in Budapest
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Family Reunion
Family Reunion
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Beach Time in France
Beach Time in France
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We Can't Wait to Be Parents!
We Can't Wait to Be Parents!

Our Extended Families

Allyson & Her Mom

Both of our families are scattered across the US but we are very lucky to currently have one of Jared's brothers living an hour away. This means we get to see our nieces and nephews every weekend! Each of us has four siblings - three brothers and one sister. Jared's family gets together at least once a year to celebrate family events. Most of them live in Utah, so they see each other more often. Allyson's family is stretched out across the US, so they get together less frequently but keep in contact through frequent group texts and emails. Of course, we also use Facebook to keep tabs on all of the nieces and nephews. All of our brothers and sisters have children - 30 total!

Playing with Nieces & Nephews

When we are able to get together with our families, one of our favorite things is to play games and cook together. Whether its paintball with all the big kids, baking desserts and playing card games with the teens, or pushing the little ones on the swing set, there is always something happening. When we first got married, Allyson made sure to start collecting games of our own to play with friends and family who came to visit.

Both of our families are excited about us adopting, but especially Allyson's; her oldest brother is adopted and has expressed his desire to help however he can with his future niece or nephew! Everyone is looking forward to welcoming the newest member of the family.

Our House and Neighborhood

Our Home

Each of us lived in a quite a few different places before we met and, once we were married, we almost immediately moved to Germany. We just moved from Germany to Western Texas, in a quiet little cul-de-sac on the North-East side of a medium-sized city. We love our little house because it has typical southwest character: full of light, with cool places to escape the heat, shaded by roses and a fig tree in the backyard. We spend most of our time in our family room, reading or on the computer, and just enjoying being together. Allyson loves to work in the craft room/guest room as well, where she's set up both a workbench for her metal-smithing and jewelry making, and a desk for paper crafting. Jared loves to go hiking in the mountains, hanging out and working on his own projects.

Although we haven't been in our house long, we have already established a wonderful support structure. That's partly due to the fact that Jared's brother, with wife and FIVE kids, lives barely an hour away. We spend many weekends with them: playing with the kids at the splash pads or the park, swimming, going out on double-dates, or playing games together as a family. We are also blessed to have an incredible church group. As Mormons, everywhere we go, we have a built-in church family, and we are always active members of our local congregation.

From Us to You

Our names are Jared and Allyson, and we thank you for taking the time to read this letter. We know that you are facing one of the toughest decisions you will ever make, and we are grateful that you would consider us to raise your precious child. Even though we have never met, we are praying for you and the journey you have ahead.

We empathize with you as you experience difficult emotions and make important choices that will affect the life of your child. Although our life experiences are not the same as yours, we have both lived through tough times and come out better people. Our greatest ambition is to create a family that loves and respects one another. We understand that this choice will be a great sacrifice, made by you to ensure your child is loved, cherished, and provided with unlimited opportunities. We have been married for three years now and have been planning for this moment, for this child, the entire time.

Due to Jared’s employment, we have been privileged to travel the world. We have seen many great things and experienced diverse cultures. However, no matter where we have traveled we have found that happiness comes from our family relationships. As faithful members of our church, we believe that families are central to happiness in life. This child, your child and ours, will be a part of a faithful family. They will grow up surrounded by joy and laughter, music and books, animals and open spaces. We both have been greatly blessed with parents who love each other and have sacrificed for us. And we both have siblings with many children. We often spend our holidays with these extended families. Our nieces and nephews are each other’s best friends. Even more importantly, all of us adults enjoy each other's company, too. Your child will be welcomed with open arms and loved by all his or her aunties, uncles, cousins, and grandparents.

We love hiking together several times a week and are looking forward to continuing to do that with our child. Allyson’s dad was always teaching her and her siblings about the natural world, so she’s excited to share that same interest in animals, plants, and minerals. Plus, we each have a family tradition of making cinnamon rolls! Even though we both think our way of making it is the best, the fact is that it’s the experience of being together, playing together, and even competing together, that is important to us as a family. Our hope is that this child will grow up surrounded by love, by adventure, and by family.

We hope that by sending you letters and pictures of your child as he/she grows that you will feel comforted and peaceful about your decision as life progresses. Like you, we look forward to discovering the talents your child has been blessed with. Will he or she be an athlete? A dancer? Talented in music? Or will he or she be more interested in subjects like math or science? No matter what they express interest in, we will support him/her in pursuing these interests.

Thank you for reading this letter and considering our family as a home for your child. We respect you for your willingness give your child to another family to raise. It is a noble and selfless choice. Both you and your child will be blessed for this decision. Should you choose our family to raise your child, we will always teach them to love and respect you for the great sacrifice you have made for them, to ensure their own future happiness. Best Wishes and God Bless You.

Gratefully yours,

Jared & Allyson

Favorites

Jared
Allyson
Actor
Harrison Ford
Chris Hemsworth
Actress
Charlize Theron
Helen Mirren
Animal
Elephant
Hawks
Author
Brandon Sanderson
L.M. Montgomery
Book
Fellowship of the Ring
The Blue Castle
Candy Bar
Reeses
Reese's Peanut Butter Cup
Cartoon
Animaniacs
My Little Pony (don't judge me, they are awesome!)
Childhood Memory
Camping with Family
Baking with my mom
Childhood Toy
Bike
Stuffed dog
Children's Book
Green Eggs & Ham
Amelia Bedelia
City
Madrid
Prague, Czech Republic
Classic Movie
Star Wars
Bringing Up Baby
Color
Orange
Cobalt Blue
Day of Week
Saterday
Thursday
Dessert
Pecan Pie
Ice Cream
Disney Movie
Aladin
The Emperor's New Groove
Dream Car
60s Mustang
Aston Martin DB9
Dream Job
Army Officer
Librarian
Dream Vacation
New Zealand
2 years in Europe!
Family Activity
Hiking
Playing card and board games
Flower / Plant
Apricot Tree
Plumeria
Food
Italian
Ice Cream
Form of Exercise
Hiking
Swimming
Fruit
Peach
Strawberries
Game
Chess
Ticket to Ride
Hobby
Fishing
Crafting
Holiday
Christmas
Christmas
Holiday Song
Silent Night
Let It Snow!
Holiday Tradition
Cooking
Family dinner
Ice Cream
Cookies and Cream
Ben & Jerry's (flavor varies, depends on the season!)
Junk Food
Corn Chips
Ice Cream (do you see a theme here?)
Leisure Activity
Travel
Reading
Magazine
National Geographic
Smithsonian
Memory with a Child
Spend Christmas with Family
Helping a friend give birth
Memory with Spouse
Traveling in Europe
The first Time We Went to Prague
Movie
Star Wars
Oscar
Movie Munchie
Buttered Pop Corn
Sour Patch Kids
Movie Quote
Princess Bride; Miracle Max and Valerie: Have fun stormin�¢?? da castle.
Le Foux, I'm afraid I've been thinking ...
Movie Type
Science Fiction
Comedy
Musical
Les Miserables
Annie Get Your Gun
Musical Group
Johhny Cash
Coldplay
Nursery Rhyme
Humpty Dumpty
There once was a girl, who had a little curl
Olympic Event
Gymnastics
Gymnastics
Personal Hero
Captain Moroni
Audrey Hepburn
Play
West Side Story
Oscar
Poet
Robert Frost
Shel Silverstein
Quality about my Spouse
Her Intelligence
His Kind Heart
Quote
It is, what it is...
"Oh be wise. What can I say more?"
Restaurant
Terry Black BBQ
Don't really have one. I love all kinds of foods and finding new places.
Sandwich
Pastrami
Hamburger (That counts, right?)
Scripture
James 1:22: But be ye doers of the word, and not hearers only, deceiving your own selves.
1 Cor. 13:13
Shopping Store
Amazon
Amazon
Song
Johnny Cash: Ring of fire
Depends on the occasion
Sport to Play
Basketball
Bicycling
Sport to Watch
Football
I don't really have one as I've never been the person to sit and watch sports, unless it's a live match. Then it would be hockey.
Sports Star
Steve Young
David Beckham
Sports Team
Utah Utes Football
Tarheels
Subject in School
History
Reading
Superhero
Incredible Hulk
Thor
Thing to Cook
BBQ
Dessert!
Time of Day
Early morning
Evening. I'm a total night owl, starting to get really going at about 5 or 6 p.m.
Tradition
Thanksgiving dinner
Every day when Jared gets home from work, the first thing he does is find me wherever I am and give me a kiss.
TV Show
Star Gate/Arrested Development
Miss Fisher's Murder Mystery
TV Show Character
Michael Bluth
Phryne Fisher
Type of Music
Country
Indie Rock/Alternative
Vacation Spot
Maine
Hawaii
Video Game
Civilization
Hay Day (even though I don't play it anymore)

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