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Brandon & Josh

We have a tremendous amount of love, support, fun and care that we cannot wait to share with a child. We know that life is a blessing and we appreciate every day. We love to spend our time learning, traveling the world, and gathering with family and friends at our lake house. And we cannot wait to share those experiences with a child.

About Us

Brandon
Josh
Job
Director, Product Management
Dermatologist, MD
Education
Master of Business Administration
Doctor of Medicine
Children
None
Relationship
Legally Married

Our Leisure Time

Visiting Our Favorite Spot in NYC

In his free time, Josh likes to garden, train for and run marathons, and plan trips around the world. Brandon sings in a local chorus, acts at a community theater, and cooks all sorts of fun meals. Together we both like to sit out on the dock, do projects around the house, and travel. We also like to go see live music and other performances around town. We love to go listen to the local bands who play at an amphitheater in our town, and the big stars that perform at the stadiums in downtown Columbia. We try to take at least two trips a year, one to a new place in the world where we can learn about a new culture and history first hand, and another to a beach, where we can just relax and reconnect.

Cultural Diversity

Josh With One of His Best Friends

We both valued diversity so much, that we purposefully sought it out in our higher education and training. Josh went to medical school in a port city, where people from all walks of life come and go, and then trained in New Haven, Connecticut and the Bronx in New York City. Brandon's college and graduate schools were both known for their diverse student bodies, and working in the arts means he gets to connect with people of color and different cultures on a deep personal level. We met and lived together in New York City, one of the most diverse cities in the world, where we easily heard more than 10 languages being spoken every day. As gay men, we have experienced being the minority and the struggles that brings. But we have also developed great skills at overcoming setbacks and obstacles to keep a positive outlook on life. This has given both of us a deep sense of empathy for all minorities in America. Our coming out process took us both from a place of fear to pride. If we adopt a child from another culture, we would make every single effort to make sure our child is exposed to that culture and heritage, and has a sense of pride in them. We would all learn, celebrate and likely travel to expand our horizons.

Our Pup, Stella

Stella Napping

We have one big, fluffy, goofy Old English Sheepdog named Stella. Whenever life gets stressful, she has a great way of reminding us to not take things too seriously by giving us high fives, taking us for a stroll around the yard (she likes to herd), or just by resting her head on our lap. She's also been a great test of our co-parenting skills, making us agree on rules, rewards, boundaries, etc. Having Stella around means we get plenty of practice resisting puppy dog eyes, pouting, begging and all those tactics she employs when she wants a biscuit. Having a dog means we've already adapted our lives to come second to another creature's needs and wants. So while a child will be much more challenging then a pet, we like to think Stella has given us a little practice. She's great with other people, pets, and kids and we have a feeling she'll take her big sister duties very seriously.

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About to Get Hitched
About to Get Hitched
Josh in the Sahara Desert in Morocco
Josh in the Sahara Desert in Morocco
Brandon Reading Bedtime Stories
Brandon Reading Bedtime Stories
Brandon Visiting a Shrine in Japan
Brandon Visiting a Shrine in Japan
Josh Playing Soccer in Ireland With Little Danny
Josh Playing Soccer in Ireland With Little Danny
Brandon Horseback Riding in Iceland
Brandon Horseback Riding in Iceland
Josh Enjoys Running
Josh Enjoys Running
Brandon's Chorus Rehearsing for a Concert
Brandon's Chorus Rehearsing for a Concert
Touring the Pergamon Museum
Touring the Pergamon Museum
Swimming on Our Dock
Swimming on Our Dock
Brandon on Safari in Kenya
Brandon on Safari in Kenya
Josh in Montreal
Josh in Montreal
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About to Get Hitched
About to Get Hitched
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Josh in the Sahara Desert in Morocco
Josh in the Sahara Desert in Morocco
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Brandon Reading Bedtime Stories
Brandon Reading Bedtime Stories
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Brandon Visiting a Shrine in Japan
Brandon Visiting a Shrine in Japan
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Josh Playing Soccer in Ireland With Little Danny
Josh Playing Soccer in Ireland With Little Danny
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Brandon Horseback Riding in Iceland
Brandon Horseback Riding in Iceland
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Josh Enjoys Running
Josh Enjoys Running
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Brandon's Chorus Rehearsing for a Concert
Brandon's Chorus Rehearsing for a Concert
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Touring the Pergamon Museum
Touring the Pergamon Museum
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Swimming on Our Dock
Swimming on Our Dock
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Brandon on Safari in Kenya
Brandon on Safari in Kenya
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Josh in Montreal
Josh in Montreal

Our House and Neighborhood

The Front of Our House in Winter

We picked our house because we knew it would be perfect for raising a family. Our house sits on 3.5 acres with a long stretch of lakefront.

Our house has four bedrooms, and a big living room and kitchen, so it's always full of family and friends.

Our favorite spot is out on the dock where you can listen to the water lap against the shore, watch birds like bald eagles and herons search for their lunch, and chat with a neighbor as they boat by either fishing or 'tubing'.

Relaxing on Our Dock

The entire property is fenced, so kids and our dog Stella can run around and explore nature. It has a forest for tree forts, a big yard for tag, big old trees, and a fire pit where our family gathers for sing-alongs with Aunt Gwen, who does both Janis Joplin and Joni Mitchell proud!

Our neighborhood is a mix of rural and suburban neighborhoods, but we're only a 20-minute drive to Columbia, South Carolina. It's a great college town and home to the University of South Carolina, many museums, and tons of great music and arts organizations.

We also picked our house because it's zoned for some of the best schools in the entire state. There are several immersion programs where children can start school learning Spanish, French, German or Chinese.

Our Extended Families

With Brandon's Sister & Brother-in-Law

We have large extended families and we all love to get together and boat, fish off the dock, cook, and play games like charades, kickball, badminton, volleyball, and cornhole.

We have three nephews, a niece, and many young cousins of all ages who live just down the road, which means any new child gets instant cousins, friends, mentors, and babysitters!

Picnic With Cousins

All of our family members are excited for us to adopt a child, especially Brandon's mom who has been awaiting her first grandkid, "for way too long!" Josh's mom matches her enthusiasm, often telling us, "you know how much I love to hold babies!"

Brandon's parents, aunts and uncles are retired so they visit us in South Carolina often. Josh's family members are all within a 20-minute drive, so they come over to "the lake house" all the time.

We love to learn in our family, so we often get all the kids together for family field trips to our local nationally acknowledged zoo or our local children's museum.

From Us to You

Thank you! It is a true blessing and honor that you are helping us to grow our family. We appreciate you taking some time to get to know us a little better. We understand what a big and selfless decision you are making and we appreciate your careful time and consideration.

We've been together for eight years, and married for over two years. We met in New York City in 2010 when Josh was doing his residency training after medical school and Brandon was pursuing acting opportunities. It has been an adventure since. We've moved to four states together, supported each other through grad school for Brandon, and endured life's ups and downs. We have now settled into our forever home in South Carolina, and we're ready to grow our family. Having children has always been a hope and dream for both of us as long as we can remember. Adoption has always been our first choice.

Our nieces and nephews have taught us so much. Every time we get to read them a bedtime story, patch up a scraped knee, or teach them a new word, our hearts grow a little bigger. It makes us even more ready to become parents. We have so much love to give and we feel called to parent and provide for a child. We think it's one of the reasons we were put on this earth. We have worked very hard to get to the point in our lives where we feel we can provide a loving, supportive and adventurous household to raise a child.

We promise to nurture, support, love and care for any child in our care for the rest of their lives. We are blessed to have parents that supported us in whatever dreams we set out for ourselves, and we are eager to provide that for a child. Whatever wishes and dreams they have, we'll work tirelessly to support them in achieving them. Whether it's changing diapers, helping with math homework, or driving the carpool to soccer practice, we will never miss the chance to help a child grow into their full potential.

Our house will be a safe, stable, compassionate, warm home for a child. We look forward to changing diapers in our nursery, teaching them to swim in our lake, sparking up conversations about their day at school around the dinner table, and playing board games in our living room. It will be full of grandparents, aunts, uncles, cousins, and friends, who will be there to help take care of them and support them as they grow. All of our friends and family are so excited for us to adopt and to welcome a new member into the family.

You will always have a special place in our family. It is a place of honor, respect, appreciation and love. From our point of view, you're making a brave and selfless decision and we will never forget that. We'll make sure that's the understanding of all our family members. We're happy to stay in each other's lives through photos, emails, visits or whatever else you're comfortable with. And we know your wants and needs may change as years go on, so we are happy to adapt. Regardless, we will make sure that your child always knows you love them and that you made the ultimate sacrifice to do what was best for them. They will be forever loved and cared for.

From the bottom of our hearts, thank you for considering adoption and thank you for considering us. Our hearts are already swelling with gratitude just at the chance to grow our family and become adoptive parents. We're open books, so if there's anything else we can share about ourselves please don't hesitate to ask. And if you'd like to meet and learn more in person, that's something we are willing to do.

Again thank you. We'll be thinking of you and sending love and light as you move forward in your journey.

Sincerely,

Brandon & Josh

Favorites

Brandon
Josh
Actor
Robin Williams
Ryan Reynolds
Actress
Meryl Streep
Anna Kendrick
Animal
Elephant
Elephant
Author
David Sedaris
J.K. Rowling
Book
The Alchemist
The Little Prince
Candy Bar
Pay Day
Reese's Fastbreak
Cartoon
Family Guy
The Animaniacs
Childhood Memory
Riding rollercoasters with my brother
Going to DisneyWorld in Florida
Childhood Toy
Go-Kart
Race cars
Children's Book
Harry Potter
All the Bernstain Bear Books
City
NYC
Paris, France
Classic Movie
Goonies
National Lampoon's Christmas Vacation
Color
Red
Blue
Day of Week
Friday!
Friday
Dessert
Tiramisu
Chocolate Cake
Disney Movie
Lion King
Newsies
Dream Car
Helicopter
Range Rover
Dream Job
Parent
To own a plant nursery
Dream Vacation
Greece
To do a safari in Africa
Family Activity
Boating
Traveling
Flower / Plant
Magnolia Tree
Red Geranium
Food
Mom's Red Sauce and Spaghetti
Pizza
Form of Exercise
Yoga
Running
Fruit
Kiwi
Banana
Game
Charades
Contra on old school Nintendo
Hobby
Making Music
Gardening
Holiday
Halloween
Halloween
Holiday Song
Holy Night
Underneath the Tree by Kelly Clarkson
Holiday Tradition
Tacking Lights Tour
Looking at Christmas lights on Christmas Eve Eve
Ice Cream
Pistacio
Mint Chocolate Chip
Junk Food
Cheese and Crackers
BBQ Potato Chips
Leisure Activity
Concerts
Riding the train
Magazine
Southern Living
Southern Living
Memory with a Child
Teaching kids to swim
Teaching my Irish friend's son, Danny, how to cast a fishing rod
Memory with Spouse
Dancing to Beyonce at our Wedding
Laying on the beach reading books in St. Martin
Movie
The Departed
The Devil Wears Prada
Movie Munchie
Sweedish Fish
Raisinets
Movie Quote
"There's a snake in my boot!"
"I'm one stomach flu away from my ideal weight."
Movie Type
Rom Com
Action, Adventure or Science Fiction
Musical
West Side Story
Newsies
Musical Group
Fleetwood Mac
Matt and Kim
Nursery Rhyme
Row Row Row Your Boat
Humpty Dumpty
Olympic Event
Women's Gymnastics
Swimming, Diving, Track and Field, Gymnastics
Personal Hero
Obama
Play
Importance of Being Earnest
Poet
Pablo Neruda
Quality about my Spouse
His Drive
He's an awesome cook and a wonderfully nice individual.
Quote
Fortune Favors the Bold
"First they ignore you, then they laugh at you, then they fight you, then you win." -Mahatma Gandhi
Restaurant
My mom's kitchen
Bellacino's (local Italian restaurant)
Sandwich
Chicken Parm
Turkey with mustard, mayo and banana peppers
Scripture
Isaiah 40:31
Judge not, that ye be not judged.
Shopping Store
Home Depot
Lowe's Home Improvement (especially the garden section)
Song
Black Bird by the Beatles
Crazy Game of Poker by OAR
Sport to Play
Kickball
Kickball
Sport to Watch
Basketball
Tennis
Sports Star
Serena Williams
Lebron James
Sports Team
University of South Carolina Gamecocks
UVA Basketball
Subject in School
Latin
French
Superhero
Obama
Deadpool
Thing to Cook
Chicken Shish Kabobs
Spaghetti and bread
Time of Day
Dawn
Morning!
Tradition
Lighting Candles for Passed Family Members at Thanksgiving
Sending out birthday cards and postcards when traveling
TV Show
Cheers
Will and Grace
TV Show Character
Karen Walker
Olivia from Law and Order: SVU
Type of Music
Jazz
Pop, Chill, Indie
Vacation Spot
Saint Martin
France
Video Game
Mario Kart
Super Mario Brothers (original Nintendo version)

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