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Matt & Amanda

We are so excited to be on this journey of becoming first-time parents through adoption. We feel we have been incredibly blessed to have a home filled with so much love and life. Welcoming a child into our family to share this love is our greatest dream. Words cannot describe what it would mean to us to be chosen to be your child's parents. We are so thankful to you for your consideration of our profile.

About Us

Matt
Amanda
Job
Portfolio Manager
Emergency Medicine Physician Assistant
Education
Master's Degree in Finance
Master's Degree in Physician Assistant Medicine
Children
None
Relationship
Legally Married

Our Leisure Time

Family Hiking Day at a State Park

We both love to get outside and be active. We live by the motto, "the family that plays together, stays together" and have found tons of activities we love to do together. Our favorites are reading, cooking, hiking at the state parks, pontoon rides and walking our dog to the lake to swim. We love to spend our free time with friends and family, but also designate a night each week as date night. We also love to travel (who doesn't?) and usually go on 3-4 trips per year. We've been lucky enough to hike in the mountains of Germany, Italy, California, Colorado, Hawaii, Arizona and all over the Midwest. For the past 8 years we've gone on 2 annual trips with cousins and friends. In the early fall, we go for a long weekend of camping where we do all sorts of fun things like mountain bike, play games and eat lots of s'mores. (This fall, there will be 8 kids under 7!). In the winter, we go for an annual ski and snowboarding vacation; sometimes in the Midwest and sometimes out to Colorado. When we're home, Matt loves to get in a round of golf while Amanda rides in the golf cart. Amanda really enjoys going out for walks and spending time with her sister and nephews who live nearby. We are so lucky to have so many activities we love to do together and are looking forward to being able to share these adventures with a child.

Qualities We Love, Admire and Respect in Each Other

A Day at the Park

Matt About Amanda: Amanda is the most patient and caring person that I know. She works as a Physician Assistant in an emergency room, so every week she goes to work and cares for people and their families in what's usually the scariest time of their lives. Seeing the way that she cares for our nephews and niece as well as our friends' children, I have no doubt that the love and affection that she pours out to them will make her an incredible mother. I admire that Amanda's top priorities are her faith, family and friends, and then her career.

Amanda About Matt: Shortly after meeting Matt I knew he was the one I was going to marry. I remember the first time I went to his apartment he had a bulletin board with a daily bible verse posted; I loved seeing that he was confident in his faith and knew that he would help guide me in mine. He is a better husband than I could have imagined. He is patient, adventurous, doesn't take himself too seriously and most importantly he is devoted to our marriage and family. He's also pretty handy around the house (WIN!). The way Matt plays with and adores all of the children in our life show me every day that he is going be a wonderful father. I feel so blessed to have found this man to be my rock.

Discussing Adoption

Adoption has been part of the discussion for our family since we were dating. It is something that both of us hold dear to our hearts. Matt grew up with friends who were adopted and Amanda has two cousins who were adopted from South Korea. We are very close with her cousins and they have been great resources as we've prepared for our own adoption journey. Adoption was always an open discussion growing up for Amanda and we plan to have this same openness with the children we are lucky enough to raise. We plan to teach them from the very beginning about their adoption story and about their first family. Both of us hope to have a relationship with their first family so that this child can know the love and history from which they came.

While we did try to have biological children, it was our familiarity with adoption that made the decision to stop fertility treatments a simple one. We had a couple of miscarriages and went through a year of fertility testing, medications and procedures. After the transfer of our last embryo failed and it was time to start another round of IVF, we realized that passing on our genetics was not what was important to us, but rather to share our unconditional love and this journey of life with a child.

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Having Fun at a Cubs Game
Having Fun at a Cubs Game
Scary Faces at the Amusement Park
Scary Faces at the Amusement Park
Meeting Our Nephew
Meeting Our Nephew
Playing in the Pool With Our Nephew
Playing in the Pool With Our Nephew
Enjoying the Amazing Views at a Wedding in Big Sur, California
Enjoying the Amazing Views at a Wedding in Big Sur, California
Kayaking in Monterey Bay
Kayaking in Monterey Bay
Decorating the Christmas Tree With Our Nephew
Decorating the Christmas Tree With Our Nephew
Taking in the Views While Hiking on St. Lucia
Taking in the Views While Hiking on St. Lucia
Snowboarding in Colorado
Snowboarding in Colorado
Stopping Along a Beach While Hiking in California
Stopping Along a Beach While Hiking in California
Warming up by the Fire on Our Annual Camping Trip
Warming up by the Fire on Our Annual Camping Trip
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Having Fun at a Cubs Game
Having Fun at a Cubs Game
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Scary Faces at the Amusement Park
Scary Faces at the Amusement Park
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Meeting Our Nephew
Meeting Our Nephew
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Playing in the Pool With Our Nephew
Playing in the Pool With Our Nephew
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Enjoying the Amazing Views at a Wedding in Big Sur, California
Enjoying the Amazing Views at a Wedding in Big Sur, California
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Kayaking in Monterey Bay
Kayaking in Monterey Bay
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Decorating the Christmas Tree With Our Nephew
Decorating the Christmas Tree With Our Nephew
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Taking in the Views While Hiking on St. Lucia
Taking in the Views While Hiking on St. Lucia
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Snowboarding in Colorado
Snowboarding in Colorado
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Stopping Along a Beach While Hiking in California
Stopping Along a Beach While Hiking in California
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Warming up by the Fire on Our Annual Camping Trip
Warming up by the Fire on Our Annual Camping Trip

Our House and Neighborhood

Our Home

We live in a spacious four-bedroom home in the Chicago suburbs. We've got a great open floor plan with a fireplace that we use all winter long and a big finished walkout basement. Our house is in a wooded area that has a nice yard where we love to play with our dog, Nikita. The primary school is directly behind our house; there is even a path to the school from our backyard. The neighborhood we live in is mostly made up of young families with children. Every year our neighborhood has a block party with hoola-hoop contests, water balloon fights and a barbecue with lots of delicious food. In the fall, we do a great neighborhood chili cook-off and cookie-baking contest. It's a smaller neighborhood, which means it's pretty quiet and generally easy to get to know everyone. There are always families outside playing with little ones and kids riding around on bikes. Nature trails, parks, public lakes are all within walking distance making it the perfect spot to grow our family. In fact, our favorite park is right across the street and we walk our dog there each week. The park has a playground and a great lake front area with a beach for swimming and boat docks where we can go fishing. They also have a picnic area that we use for an annual picnic with friends.

Our Extended Families

Amanda's Family

We both come from large, close-knit extended families, each with an older sister and a younger brother. Spending time with all of them is so very important to both of us. With Amanda's parents, siblings and five nephews and niece all living within 20 minutes, we get to see them regularly. We often get together for boat rides and swimming or Friday night dinners at Amanda's sister's restaurant. The tradition we love most with Amanda's family is celebrating birthdays at a hibachi grill they have been going to since Amanda was 8! Matt's family lives a little further away in Indiana, however, this makes for great opportunities to spend long weekend visits at Nana and Grandpa's house! Our weekends in Indiana are frequent and filled with barbecues, trips to the zoo, wild card games and lazy afternoons by the lake. Matt's sister just gave birth to baby boy number 3 this summer so we're looking forward to many trips back to hang out with our nephews. Sleepovers with cousins and grandparents, game nights, learning to swim and ski with family are all memories we can't wait to share with children. Both of our families, especially our young nephews are so excited to welcome a new member to the family and all are extremely supportive of our adoption plan.

Matt's Family

From Us to You

As we sit here writing this letter, we can't fathom the weight and difficulty of the decision you are making. We hope this little glimpse into our home, family and adventures has helped you to learn a little more about us and our lives and we thank you for taking the time to read about us.

We're a fun, adventurous and relaxed couple (or so we think!). Matt loves all sports and played many as well, including baseball in college at Valparaiso University. He loves the idea of one day coaching a sports team for our future kids. Amanda loves all things food and worked as a dietitian for 3 years before deciding to go back for her master's degree. Now, she keeps nutrition as a hobby by growing fresh vegetables in our garden and always coming up with healthy new recipes to try. If we can't be outside doing our favorite things, you can find both of us on the couch nose deep in a good book.

Our very close friends introduced us at a wedding 9 years ago. We clicked right away and were married 2 years later. We've spent the last 7 years finishing graduate school, traveling, hanging out with our friends and family, and vacuuming up all of the dog hair from our beloved fur baby, Nikita.

Both of us have jobs that offer great flexibility in our schedules. Matt manages investments for a large finance company and is typically able to work from home one day per week; Amanda is an emergency medicine Physician Assistant at our local hospital and usually works three days per week. Our flexible hours mean more time at home together and the ability to make children's activities our priority. We both love our careers and hope to teach our future children to reach for their dreams and their greatest potential.

Family and faith have always been our greatest priorities and in honoring both of these, we have dreamed of expanding our family since shortly after getting married. After trying on our own for some time, God made it clear to us that he had another plan and our path towards adoption became clear. Becoming parents would mean the world to us. We look forward to raising children who are hard working, open-minded, patient, loving and kind. We were both blessed to grow up with families that made our future a priority and granted us every opportunity; we are committed to providing these same opportunities and ensuring our children grow up in a stable, supportive and loving home.

In choosing us to be your child's parents, your child will grow up in a home with parents who make them dinner, help them with homework and tuck them in at night. Your child will grow up with memories of camping with family and friends, trips to the beach in South Carolina and holidays with cousins, aunts, uncles and grandparents all around. We will teach them to fish and ride bikes, to play baseball and to dance and to be a good friend and a good person. Most importantly, your child will grow up in a home knowing what it is to be loved unconditionally.

You are your child's history and we open our hearts to your continued presence in your child's life through letters, email updates, pictures and keepsakes. We also welcome the idea of arranging visits when the time is right if that is something you wish for. We are so eager to get to know you and your child's story. If we are so lucky to become your child's parents, they will always know the love from which they came and the amazing way in which we are all connected.

We would be eternally grateful to begin this journey with you and promise to support you in all the ways that we can. We are by no means perfect, but please know that love is the foundation of our family and we have so much more love to give.

With love and respect,

Matt & Amanda

Favorites

Matt
Amanda
Actor
Christian Bale
Tom Hanks
Actress
Sandra Bullock
Diane Keeton
Animal
Nikita, our Siberian Husky
Our siberian husky, Nikita
Author
Vince Flynn,
Kristin Hannah
Book
The Bible
Gone with the Wind
Candy Bar
Not a bar - but Sweet Tarts!
Twix
Cartoon
Scooby Doo
Childhood Memory
Playing baseball with my brother and Dad in the front yard
Summers at the cabin in northern Wisconsin swimming, catching frogs, learning to ski and fish and running around with cousins
Childhood Toy
Hot Wheels
Fantastic Flowers
Children's Book
Green Eggs and Ham
Goodnight Moon
City
Chicago Suburbs
Chicago
Classic Movie
Jurassic Park
Forest Gump
Color
Blue
Blue/Green
Day of Week
Friday
Saturday
Dessert
Brownies...it's always hard to turn down!
Cookies
Disney Movie
Lion King
Peter Pan
Dream Car
Range Rover Sport
Mercedes G wagon
Dream Job
College Baseball Coach
To be a home designer/flipper like Chip and JoJo
Dream Vacation
New Zealand
Snorkeling the Great Barrier Reef in Australia
Family Activity
Weekend barbecues and boating
Sitting around a fire with our parents and siblings talking about life
Flower / Plant
Lilacs
Food
Sushi is the one food group Amanda and I can't make and shouldn't try to make on our own. The sushi places by us get great fish and have great chefs.
Sushi
Form of Exercise
Mountain biking is the best, it's fun to be in nature and get a great workout.
Hiking
Fruit
Fresh peaches from the farmer's market
strawberries
Game
Risk
Monopoly
Hobby
Golf
Holiday
Thanksgiving
Christmas
Holiday Song
O Holy Night
Silent Night
Holiday Tradition
Amanda and Mom make Christmas cookies.....I eat them
Christmas cookie day and decorating the weekend after Thanksgiving
Ice Cream
Cookie Dough
Cookie dough
Junk Food
Five Guys
Buffalo wings
Leisure Activity
Golf and hiking
Boating with family and friends
Magazine
Economist
Memory with a Child
Sleepovers with our nephews
Carving pumpkins at Halloween with my twin nephews
Memory with Spouse
Hiking Mount Jenner in Germany
Matt surprising me with all of our friends and family right after we got engaged
Movie
Saving Private Ryan
Pretty Woman
Movie Munchie
Popcorn
Movie Quote
"Life moves pretty fast. If you don't stop and look around once in a while, you could miss it." (Ferris Bueller's Day Off)
Movie Type
Action
Rom Com or drama
Musical
Hamilton
Rent
Musical Group
One Republic
Olympic Event
Track and Field
Gymnastics
Personal Hero
Stan Drunckenmiller
Poet
Walt Whitman
Shell Silverstein
Quality about my Spouse
Amanda is always a positive person, nothing seems to ever hold her down.
His arms...just kidding! He is patient, easy going and always up for something fun
Quote
"Price is what you pay. Value is what you get." -Warren Buffett
Restaurant
Dunkin Donuts
O'Tooles
Sandwich
Cuban
Grilled chicken sandwich
Scripture
Joshua 1:9 "Be strong and courageous. Do not be afraid; do not be discouraged, for the LORD your God will be with you wherever you go."
But the Lord stood with me and gave me strength. 2 Timothy 4:17
Shopping Store
Costco
Home Goods
Sport to Play
Golf
I'm better at watching
Sport to Watch
Baseball
Football
Sports Star
Mike Trout
Sports Team
Indianapolis Colts
Chicago Cubs
Subject in School
Finance
Art
Superhero
Batman
Wonder Woman
Thing to Cook
Fajitas
Lemon Risotto
Time of Day
Mid morning when I am most productive
Tradition
For 20 years my family has been taking annual trips to Hilton Head, SC
Our annual camping and ski trips
TV Show
Game of Thrones
Fixer Upper or Sex and the City
TV Show Character
Bobby Axelrod -Billions
Carrie Bradshaw
Type of Music
Classic Rock
Vacation Spot
Amalfi Coast in Italy
Nicolet National Forest
Video Game
Starcraft
Super Mario World!

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