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Jon & Clare

Hello from Ghana! Thank you for choosing to get to know us. The day we adopted our daughter Sora was the best day of our lives, and we've treasured every moment of snuggling her, singing to her, laughing with her, and helping her grow. We both come from big families, and we're grateful to you for considering us as parents and potentially giving Sora a sibling.

About Us

Jon
Clare
Job
Human Rights Lawyer
Clean Energy Development
Education
Law Degree
Master's Degree in Public Policy
Children
Sora
Relationship
Legally Married

Adoption in Our Lives

Our Family

Sora parachuted into our lives on May 10, 2019. Her birth mother decided to place her for adoption just two weeks before she was scheduled for a C-section, so we only had a few days' notice to drop everything and hurry to Florida for the birth. We were excited beyond words, but also nervous and trying to keep our expectations under control.

With Sora's Birth Family

Now, a year later, it's hard to even imagine life without Sora. She makes our hearts sing with her sweetness and snuggliness - the best part of everyday is the half-hour before her bedtime, when she rolls around on the bed with us, plays with our noses, and burrows her head into our chests. She's a total goof-ball - she loves dancing like a crazy person to upbeat hip-hop tunes and belly-laughing whenever she eats something that hits her just right. And her excitement at discovering the world has helped us appreciate the beauty of our everyday lives - when we take her outside to see the animals she loves to greet on the streets of our neighborhood, we're reminded of how lucky we are to live in such a vibrant and joyful place.

We know parenting won't always be easy, whether it's with Sora or another child. But we're so excited for Sora to share her light with a new brother or sister.

Our Leisure Time

Fun at the Beach With Friends

As a family, we love to cook delicious meals, see friends and family, and go adventuring to different corners of the globe. On a typical night at home, Sora goes to bed by 7:30, and then we spend the rest of the evening reading, watching Netflix, or having dinner parties with friends. On a weekend, we might head out of town to the beach or just spend a lazy Saturday at a friend's pool. On vacation, things are a little more unpredictable - you might find us visiting family in Nebraska, hiking in the Rocky Mountains, or going to obscure music festivals in remote West African capitals.

Hiking

When Jon is away on work travel, he usually comes back to find out that Clare has binge-watched three seasons of her current fave TV show and eaten grilled cheese every night after Sora went to bed.

When Clare is away on work travel, she learns on her return that Jon has filled the freezer with experimental dinners, eaten two tubs of ice cream, and pulled at least two all-nighters reading sci-fi or history e-books.

Qualities We Love, Admire and Respect in Each Other

Jon says: Clare is a creative soul who's always looking to make someone feel special or turn an ordinary day into a dance party. She has a sharp mind, a big heart, and believes we're in this world to make life better for others.

Fun Facts about Clare:

  • After working and saving up for years, Clare spent her 25th year traveling, planting trees in India, hiking in Australia, and working to protect the environment in China.
  • Her favorite food is anything with cheese.
  • At age 10, a chunky Clare decided she either needed to eat less or start exercising. She refused to go on a diet, so instead she started doing her mom's "Dancing to the Oldies" workouts in the basement every night.
  • President Obama once called Clare a "shorty" - one of the proudest moments of her life.
  • Clare says: Watching Jon with Sora is so special - his passion for life, kindness, and teaching spirit make him an awesome dad.

    Fun Facts about Jon:

  • He makes up hilarious new lyrics to old songs
  • His favorite food is cereal, but he's an excellent cook
  • He loves nature and can't resist jumping into any body of water
  • He works as a human rights lawyer, but at home he's always making Sora and me laugh, playing piano, or talking about something interesting he's reading.
  • Jon has lived with Tanzanian Masai warriors, worked with tribes in the Amazon rainforest, and traveled to almost every Midwestern state.
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    Giraffes
    Giraffes
    All Dressed Up
    All Dressed Up
    Jon at a Shrine
    Jon at a Shrine
    Clare Feeding a Monkey
    Clare Feeding a Monkey
    All Smiles
    All Smiles
    Camping in Nepal
    Camping in Nepal
    Clare Practicing Yoga
    Clare Practicing Yoga
    Riding a Camel
    Riding a Camel
    Jon in Andorra
    Jon in Andorra
    Fun in the Pool
    Fun in the Pool
    Scuba in Sao Tome
    Scuba in Sao Tome
    Street Art in Accra
    Street Art in Accra
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    Street Art in Accra

    Our House and Neighborhood

    Welcome to Our Home

    We live in a vibrant neighborhood in Accra, the capital city of Ghana. Ghana is an amazing place. There is a spark and diversity to life: people wear bright clothes, big is beautiful, and there's usually music playing somewhere. We live in a sweet, bright house with a mango tree out front and Ghanaian neighbors who have taken us into their family. Our house is separated into two large apartments - the ground floor apartment is our home (two bedrooms, big living room with play space, dining area etc.), and the second floor apartment is the headquarters for Jon's human rights non-profit where he and his team work every day (best commute ever!).

    We have a large, tree-covered area in the front with a big trampoline that provides us endless jumping fun. Each morning after some breakfast, we all usually head outside so Sora can wave and make noises at chickens, roosters, goats, and the occasional friendly dog. Accra is the best of Africa - we've got good roads, electricity, and public services, but also free-roaming animals and friendly neighbors who stop to say hello.

    After our morning stroll, Sora's nanny, Rose, arrives, and they play while we go upstairs to work. Working so close is amazing - we get to come downstairs for lunch with Sora and see her throughout the day jumping on the trampoline and playing. It's hot year-round here, so on the weekends, we usually cook, eat, and play in the pool with friends. Most evenings we stay at home and have family music and dancing time until Sora goes to bed - Jon plays the piano, and Clare and Sora sing and dance along. We feel very lucky - it's a pretty great life.

    Our Extended Families

    In Nevada With Family

    Dozens of cousins bouncing on cushions in the basement. Six sets of aunts and uncles, ready to read a child a story, take them for a walk, or just play board games. A grandmother, two grandpas, and a great-grandma (Noni) to watch over you, sing you to sleep, and make sure you pee before you go to bed! That's how we'll spend Christmas and other holidays with Clare's family in Omaha, Michigan, and Tennessee.

    Our Fun Family

    A goofy grandpa with bottomless energy and endless stories to fool around with. A doting Bubbe (the Jewish word for grandmother) who will always send you home with your favorite baked dessert. An aunt and uncle who will make time for any activity that catches your interest, and two cousins who will always include you in their crazy games. That's what weekends with Jon's family in New York will be like.

    Then there are the friends – also our family – here in Ghana who are just waiting to welcome another child into our Tuesday dance nights and singalong Fridays. And our home crew in the U.S., who are always asking us when we're coming back next to see them and their kids.

    And of course, there is us – two completely devoted parents, head over heels in love with our daughter Sora and hoping to adopt again. Two parents who try to make every single day full of adventure, joy, and learning. Two parents who are ready to nurture another child and make our family complete.

    From Us to You

    Adoption is a crazy process. For you, making the tough decision to entrust your child to other people to raise and then choosing who those people should be. For us, going through 27+ layers of paperwork and process, all the while wondering when and how it will end. But we want to do it because we want to give a child the best shot at a great life, a loving upbringing, a stable environment, and a nurturing home.

    We know the adoption process is long, intense, and uncertain. When we set out to adopt our first child, the first opportunity fell through at the last minute. But the world had a surprise in store: three months later, our case worker called. A woman named Stephanie was scheduled for a C-section and had chosen us to adopt the baby. We jumped on a plane, not knowing if this would be the time that we really got to become parents.

    When we met Stephanie in person and held little Sora for the first time at the hospital, all the stress and exhaustion was washed away by the joy of forming a new family. A day later, we took Sora home; two days later, we spent Mother's Day with Stephanie and her two other kids. We text them pictures and videos of Sora regularly, and they joined our families on Zoom for Sora's one-year birthday. We love Stephanie, and we are grateful to her for bringing Sora into this world and helping us become parents.

    We moved to Ghana four years ago for Jon's work. He is a human rights lawyer and had been working from the U.S. for years supporting human rights lawyers in their cases around the world. A group of West African lawyers eventually asked him if he would move here to start a non-profit to provide them with more regular support and greater financial resources for their cases protecting communities against large corporations - usually mining companies - that destroy their environment and their livelihoods. His work is awesome - he is empowering communities to fight for their rights. Clare's passion is climate change and clean energy. She got to work for President Obama on international climate change agreements, and then, when we decided to make the move to West Africa, she was able to find a job with a small U.S. government agency that supports clean energy projects. We are dedicated to trying to make this world a better place in whatever way we can.

    We've found that Ghana is an amazing place for a child. Our neighborhood is full of schools, churches, vibrant restaurants, big flowering trees, and Ghanaian neighbors who have taken us into their family. And diversity - awesome diversity of people, cultures, and beliefs. We do plan to move back to America in a few years, and we travel home every few months to see family, so our kids will know what it means to be American. But we also think that living in different parts of the world is important - our experiences abroad have helped us realize who we are and inspired in us greater compassion for others. Our children will grow up knowing diverse cultures, including those of their birth parents. For example, Sora's birth father is from Nigeria, and we plan to make sure her Nigerian heritage is part of her life.

    Thank you for reading to the end of our profile. We are not perfect, but we are thoughtful people who love each other and have a lot more love to give. Any child who joins our family will grow up seeing the world with us. We will give them love, support, and encouragement as they pursue their dreams in life. And they will have fun! We love to sing, dance, eat, have adventures, and be silly ?" life is meant to be lived! They will also have the roots and grounding that come from an open, accepting, and hilarious circle of family and friends. Their birth parents will receive letters and pictures, and we'd be open to more consistent contact as well. Most importantly, they will be loved.

    We hope that you will want to get to know us better and consider helping us complete our family. We send you our love and gratitude as you decide your next step,

    Jon & Clare

    Favorites

    Jon
    Clare
    Actor
    Ed Norton
    Idris Elba
    Actress
    Marisa Tomei
    Meryl Streep
    Animal
    Giraffe
    Giraffe
    Author
    N.K. Jemisin
    Clive Cussler
    Book
    The Luminaries (amazing book about New Zealand during the gold rush)
    How to Slowly Kill Yourself and Others in America by Kiese Laymon
    Candy Bar
    Almond Joy
    Twix and Reeses Peanut Butter Cups...
    Cartoon
    Danger Mouse
    Mighty Mouse and She-Ra
    Childhood Memory
    Milkshakes at Arby's on long road trips with my family
    Swinging on a swing set and making flowers talk.
    Childhood Toy
    Voltron
    Trolls
    Children's Book
    The Little Train
    Hands Hands Fingers Thumb by Dr. Seuss
    City
    New York City!!!
    Paris
    Classic Movie
    The Wizard of Oz or The Never-ending Story
    Godfather and Top Gun
    Color
    Blue
    Green and Yellow
    Day of Week
    Thursday
    Thursday
    Dessert
    My mom's sour cream coffee cake
    Chocolate Lava Cake
    Disney Movie
    The Little Mermaid
    Little Mermaid
    Dream Car
    A flying car!
    Red Porche
    Dream Job
    Astronaut (yes, still, a little bit)
    Ambassador
    Dream Vacation
    Rafting in the Grand Canyon
    Hiking in New Zealand
    Family Activity
    Bedtime stories
    Making Cookies or Road Trip!
    Flower / Plant
    Lilacs
    Redwood Tree
    Food
    Ice cream
    Chocolate Chip Oatmeal Cookies
    Form of Exercise
    Running
    Running, Swimming, and Dancing
    Fruit
    Blackberries
    Watermelon
    Game
    Bananagrams
    Rummikub
    Hobby
    Figuring out songs on the piano
    Dancing and Learning Guitar
    Holiday
    Passover
    Easter
    Holiday Song
    Shalom Aleichem (Jewish sabbath song)
    Jingle Bells
    Holiday Tradition
    Friday night Shabbat dinners with family
    Singing Happy Birthday to baby Jesus on Christmas morning (and then eating cinnamon rolls with hot chocolate:).
    Ice Cream
    Baskin Robbins German Chocolate Cake ice cream
    Mint Chocolate Chip, Peanut Butter Chunk, and Coffee (I love ice cream!)
    Junk Food
    Hard pretzels
    Potato Chips (they get me every time)
    Leisure Activity
    Sleeping in
    Reading
    Magazine
    Conde Nast Traveler
    Us Weekly
    Memory with a Child
    Falling asleep with Sora on my chest when she was a newborn
    Holding Sora in the early morning when she's still sleepy and reading to her as she cuddles on my lap.
    Memory with Spouse
    Saying I love you for the first time in a giant pile of leaves in Shenandoah National Park
    Our wedding day - all of it - it was so beautiful.
    Movie
    Any Mission Impossible movie
    Mission Impossible
    Movie Munchie
    Good 'n Fruities
    Popcorn (I'm crazy for popcorn, especially movie theatre popcorn!)
    Movie Quote
    "There's no place like home"
    "Leave the gun, take the canollis."
    Movie Type
    Spy thrillers
    Action
    Musical
    Carousel
    Sound of Music
    Musical Group
    A Great Big World
    Jason Derulo
    Nursery Rhyme
    Hickory Dickory Dock (because it was Sora's first favorite)
    The Itsy Bitsy Spider and Twinkle Twinkle Little Star
    Olympic Event
    Speed skating
    Gymnastics
    Personal Hero
    Ken Saro-Wiwa (Nigerian environmental activist and martyr)
    Gandhi and Martin Luther King Jr.
    Play
    Death of a Salesman
    Hamlet
    Poet
    Langston Hughes
    Maya Angelou
    Quality about my Spouse
    Her sunniness and ability to let loose and have fun
    He is goofy,thoughtful, and a good singer (and funny dancer:).
    Quote
    "Not all those who wander are lost" (Tolkien)
    "Be the change you wish to see in the world." - Gandhi
    Restaurant
    Brothers Italian World (amazing Italian sandwiches in NYC!)
    Thip Khao in Washington DC (amazing Loatian food!)
    Sandwich
    Grilled veggie sandwich with mozzarella and balsamic vinegar from Brothers
    Egg Salad on Rye Bread with Cheddar Cheese
    Scripture
    Book of Ruth
    Luke 2:52
    Shopping Store
    Thrift stores (you never know what you're going to find!)
    Marshalls
    Song
    What I Got by Sublime
    Nina Simone "I wish I knew how it would feel to be free", Meghan Trainor "I feel better when I'm dancing", and Jason Derulo "Trumpets"
    Sport to Play
    Baseball
    Soccer
    Sport to Watch
    Soccer
    Gymnastics
    Sports Star
    Darryl Strawberry
    Michael Jordan
    Sports Team
    Yankees (don't hate me!)
    Chicago Bulls
    Subject in School
    Foreign Languages
    History
    Superhero
    Superman
    Batman
    Thing to Cook
    Pizza
    Cookies
    Time of Day
    Late afternoon
    The early evening light.
    Tradition
    Everyone in my family opens each other's fortune cookies at the Chinese restaurant instead of their own
    Family dinner
    TV Show
    Poirot
    The Good Place
    TV Show Character
    Capt. Holt from Brooklyn Nine-Nine
    Pepe Le Pew (the amorous skunk)
    Type of Music
    Big Band
    Hip Hop and Jazz
    Vacation Spot
    Rocky Mountains
    Anywhere in nature and near water OR Barcelona
    Video Game
    Super Mario Bros.
    Pac Man and Tetris

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