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Kris & Michelle

Thank you so much for taking the time to view our profile. We've been looking forward to expanding our family for many years and cannot wait to bring a child into our home. We'll do everything possible to bring as much joy, laughter, and love into this child's life. Please know that you are in our thoughts and we fully support whatever decision you make.

About Us

Kris
Michelle
Job
Special Education Teacher/ Musician
Public Program Educator
Education
Master's Degree
Bachelor's Degree
Children
None
Relationship
Legally Married

Addressing Cultural Diversity

So Happy Together

We believe that the more you learn about different cultures and beliefs, the more understanding, accepting and welcoming you will be towards everyone. We want to instill the importance of embracing diversity and inclusion to help a child become a more compassionate and well-rounded person.

We plan to introduce a child to people from various backgrounds so they can learn from their stories and experiences. We'll utilize music, art, food, and history to help inform a child about their own culture as well as many others. We live close to New York City and will spend time traversing various neighborhoods in order to experience the rich diversity of cultures that exists nearby. We recognize that we cannot be all things to a child and they will need role models that have a similar cultural background as them. We have close relationships with family and friends from a wide variety of cultures, ethnicities, races, and religions. Ultimately, it is most important to us that a child learn not to judge people based on differences and that they develop the compassion and conviction to stand up for others when they witness injustices. We want to raise a child who is loving, thoughtful, and kind; who understands there is value in all perspectives and that there is goodness in people from all backgrounds.

Our Leisure Time

New Years Day at the Beach

Much of our free time is spent at the local park or in our backyard with family and friends. Individually, we have various hobbies that we enjoy and are excited to share with a child.

Kris plays about a dozen different musical instruments including guitar, banjo, bass, saxophone, clarinet, flute, and piano. The house is filled with music! He runs over six miles a day and makes fresh bread and pizza every week. Though we often cook together, Kris usually leads culinary projects like making pasta from scratch, preparing meals from various cultures, and canning foods.

Michelle enjoys growing food from seed to harvest and gives fresh produce to family, friends, and neighbors. She also donates some of the vegetables to the local food bank. She takes great pride in preparing meals that come straight from the garden. She picks and dries herbs to use throughout the year and makes yogurt every week. Michelle loves arts and crafts including beading, making soaps, pottery, photography, doing projects that repurpose recycled materials, and knitting hats for charity.

What it Means to be Parents

Love and laughter permeate our lives and we can't wait to share those with a child. We're looking forward to the big life milestones like first steps and graduations, but are even more excited for the little everyday moments like having dinner together & reading before bedtime. We're looking forward to making a child feel better after they scrape their knee, answering big life questions at 4:00am, and helping them navigate the complexities of the world. We dream about the silly times like dancing around the house, singing, and building forts. And we can't wait to play at the beach, run our first 5k as a family, encourage their imagination to soar, and watch their expression the first time they see the ocean.

We look forward to the process of watching a child grow and develop as a person; hearing the amazingly hilarious and insightful things kids say, and guiding them through moments that help them take perspective, understand, and appreciate the world. We are excited for the ups and downs, the big and small, and the serious and silly moments of being parents!

Photos

Sharing a Laugh
Sharing a Laugh
Big Hugs
Big Hugs
Making Homemade Pasta
Making Homemade Pasta
Running Our First 5k with Our Nephew
Running Our First 5k with Our Nephew
Reading in the Hammock
Reading in the Hammock
Pulling Carrots from Our Garden
Pulling Carrots from Our Garden
Kayaking at the Beach
Kayaking at the Beach
Kris Playing at a Music Festival in Brooklyn
Kris Playing at a Music Festival in Brooklyn
Michelle Working on Our Greenhouse
Michelle Working on Our Greenhouse
Singing with Our Friend's Daughter
Singing with Our Friend's Daughter
We Love Our Walks Along the Beach
We Love Our Walks Along the Beach
Wedding Fun
Wedding Fun
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Sharing a Laugh
Sharing a Laugh
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Big Hugs
Big Hugs
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Making Homemade Pasta
Making Homemade Pasta
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Running Our First 5k with Our Nephew
Running Our First 5k with Our Nephew
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Reading in the Hammock
Reading in the Hammock
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Pulling Carrots from Our Garden
Pulling Carrots from Our Garden
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Kayaking at the Beach
Kayaking at the Beach
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Kris Playing at a Music Festival in Brooklyn
Kris Playing at a Music Festival in Brooklyn
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Michelle Working on Our Greenhouse
Michelle Working on Our Greenhouse
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Singing with Our Friend's Daughter
Singing with Our Friend's Daughter
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We Love Our Walks Along the Beach
We Love Our Walks Along the Beach
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Wedding Fun
Wedding Fun

Our Extended Families

Kris' Family

Michelle's parents live close by and often meet us at a local beach to walk. They also come to our house every week to play board games and eat homemade pizza. She has a large extended family, most of whom live close by. We get together with aunts, uncles, and cousins throughout the year. Every summer one of Michelle’s uncles has a party at his house on a lake where we swim, kayak, and eat a big meal. During the holidays, Michelle's stepfather loves dressing up as Santa and even grew a bushy white beard one year to make the experience more authentic. The whole family sings Christmas carols together led by Kris on the guitar.

Michelle's Family

Kris' family lives a few hours away, but we get together throughout the year and have a weekly Zoom date. They are incredible cooks and have many traditions involving food. The Italian side of his family gathers in late summer to process dozens of bushels of tomatoes in order to jar sauce for the rest of the year. They also get together to make "Christmas Peppers" which are stuffed hot peppers in a vinegary brine. Our nephews love trying to find the hottest pepper to eat!

Everyone is so excited to welcome a child into the family!

Our House and Neighborhood

Our Home

We live in a three-bedroom, three-bathroom house on a cul-de-sac in an extremely kid-friendly neighborhood. Our favorite part of the house is our half-acre backyard which has three large garden boxes and a greenhouse that we built ourselves. We grow a wide variety of fruits and vegetables and love preparing and eating meals that came directly from our yard!

The Beach We Visit Every Week

Our neighborhood has families with children of all ages who ride bikes, go fishing, play basketball, and hang out together. Our neighbors can't wait to have another child on the block! Each year we all gather for a neighborhood party to kick off the summer. Halloween is a particularly wonderful spectacle with the streets literally filled with trick-or-treaters and a constant flow of kids ringing our bell.

Almost every day throughout the spring, summer, and fall we visit a local beach/park where we run, kayak, swim, walk, and relax with family and friends. The beach is open year-round and is great for young children. There are rarely waves, the beach is gently sloped, and the water is shallow; perfect for little legs to splash around! We're so excited to visit all the beaches, parks, and playgrounds within walking distance from our home with a child!

From Us to You

Thank you for taking the time to learn more about us. We can't begin to imagine how difficult this time is for you and want you to know that we support whatever decisions you make throughout this process. Our hearts are with you every step of the way.

We met over 16 years ago while working at a guitar store/music school. Kris taught music lessons and Michelle scheduled them. We started out as friends and eventually the relationship grew into more. We've been together for about 15 years and married for over eight years. We can both honestly say that we like each other more and more as the years pass. Clear, honest communication, and having a sense of humor about ourselves has been the recipe for keeping our lives relatively simple and filled with joy. We cannot wait to share all our joy and love with a child!

For about seven years we tried to have a biological child. We had always talked about having two children, one biological and one adopted. After ending fertility treatments and taking the time to process the fact that we were not going to have a biological child, we dove into the world of adoption. We've spent a good deal of time researching the best way for us to grow our family and methods to support a child throughout their life. We believe adoption is a lifelong process and we're committed to educating ourselves, our extended families, and friends so we can build a solid and supportive community for a child. Our families, friends, and neighbors are beyond excited to welcome a baby into the family and have been dreaming about the things we'll all do together like going to the beach, playing music, and getting messy with arts and crafts and in the garden!

We are both teachers who value education, but recognize that a traditional path to learning is not necessarily right for everyone. Kris is a middle and high school math teacher at a special education school. He absolutely adores his students! Kris is also an extremely talented musician. He plays in a variety of bands that are all different genres. Michelle is a part-time outreach educator for an environmental non-profit and she has an extremely flexible schedule. She creates nature-based programs and works with children and adults of all ages and abilities.

We're committed to helping a child develop a strong value system. We'll encourage them to be kind, compassionate, thoughtful, and understand the benefits of hard work. We'll help them put themselves in other people's shoes so they understand different perspectives. We want to show a child a broad range of cultures so they internalize the value of diversity and learn to celebrate their own culture. Most of all, we'll encourage them to be true to themselves.

We look forward to sharing letters and pictures with you on a regular basis. We're also happy to mail little mementos each year through American Adoptions if you like. Your child will know who you are and that the decision you made for them was based on love. We will always regard you with respect and speak positively about you. We are open to meeting and will always consider you part of our family. Our thoughts and prayers are with you as you make your way through this incredibly difficult journey.

Sincerely,

Kris & Michelle

Favorites

Kris
Michelle
Actor
Rodney Dangerfield
Robert Downey Jr.
Actress
Tina Fey
Tina Fey
Animal
Coyote
Otter, Turtle
Author
Michael Pollan
Sylvia Plath
Book
Things Fall Apart - Chinua Achebe
The Book Thief
Candy Bar
Mounds
York Peppermint Pattie
Cartoon
The Simpsons
The Simpsons
Childhood Memory
Getting my first saxophone
Playing with my brothers
Childhood Toy
Legos
Cabbage Patch Doll
Children's Book
The Lorax
Good Night Moon
City
New York, NY
New York, NY
Classic Movie
A Christmas Story
The Princess Bride
Color
Blue
Green
Day of Week
Friday
Sunday
Dessert
Chipwich
Ice cream
Disney Movie
The Little Mermaid
The Little Mermaid
Dream Car
1960's MG
50's Corvette Convertible
Dream Job
Pro-Bono Lawyer
Environmental Advocate
Dream Vacation
Sicily
Fiji
Family Activity
Gardening
Gardening, Singing, Making Pizza
Flower / Plant
Sunflower/Fig tree
Daffodil
Food
Homemade pizza
Lasagna
Form of Exercise
Running
Kayaking, Running
Fruit
Blueberries
All fruit except kiwi
Game
Scrabble
Ticket to Ride
Hobby
Carpentry
Making Jewelry, Knitting, Pottery
Holiday
Wedding anniversary
Halloween
Holiday Song
Twelve Days of Christmas
Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas
Holiday Tradition
Huge Italian dinner with family
Visit from Santa (aka my stepfather)
Ice Cream
Chocolate
Coffee
Junk Food
Cookies
Ice cream
Leisure Activity
Watching movies with my Michelle
Laying in the hammock with Kris
Magazine
What's a magazine?
Anything about arts & crafts
Memory with a Child
Playing on the beach
Playing at the beach with our nephew
Memory with Spouse
Every day!
Roadtrip out west
Movie
Airplane!
Big Trouble in Little China
Movie Munchie
Popcorn
Popcorn
Movie Quote
"Surely you can't be serious?" "I am serious, and don't call me Shirley." - Airplane!
"Have fun storming the castle." - The Princess Bride
Movie Type
Comedy
Comedy
Musical
Westside Story
Fela!
Musical Group
Miles Davis, The Meters, Stevie Wonder, Ray Charles, Tom Petty, The Louvin Brothers
Tom Petty, Otis Redding, Frank Sinatra
Nursery Rhyme
Old MacDonald
The Itsy Bitsy Spider
Olympic Event
Marathon
Figure Skating
Personal Hero
Abebe Bikila
My grandparents
Play
Arsenic and Old Lace
Steel Magnolias
Poet
Homer
Robert Frost
Quality about my Spouse
Her Sense of Humor
His Sense of Humor
Quote
"If people are good only because they fear punishment, and hope for reward, then we are a sorry lot indeed." - Albert Einstein
"The greatest threat to our planet is the belief that someone else will save it." - Robert Swan
Restaurant
Thai Restaurant in NY
Italian
Sandwich
Portabello Mushroom Banh Mi
Chicken cutlet with bacon, swiss, lettuce, tomato and russian dressing
Shopping Store
Lowe's
Home Goods
Song
Imagine - John Lennon
(Sittin' on the) Dock of the Bay - Otis Redding
Sport to Play
Basketball
Basketball
Sport to Watch
Basketball
Basketball
Sports Star
Lebron James
Patrick Ewing
Sports Team
Unfortunately, the Knicks
The Knicks
Subject in School
Math
Creative Writing
Superhero
Spiderman
Wolverine
Thing to Cook
Bread
Pizza
Time of Day
Evening
Mid-morning
Tradition
Pizza Friday
Family Game Night
TV Show
The Simpsons
The Simpsons
TV Show Character
Homer Simpson
Columbo
Type of Music
Good
Rock, Oldies, Pop, Soul, Funk...Basically anything good
Vacation Spot
Virgin Islands
The Beach
Video Game
Bust-a-move
Tetris

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