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Brian & Kate

Thank you for reading our profile and taking the time to learn about us. We are so excited to add a new member to our family! We have two boys, and becoming parents has been our greatest joy and adventure. We hope that you will be able to imagine how loved your child will be in our home.

About Us

Brian
Kate
Job
Assistant Professor of Emergency Medicine
Stay-at-Home Mom
Education
Doctor of Medicine
Master's Degree - Nurse Practitioner
Children
Henry, Flynn
Relationship
Legally Married

Why We Chose Adoption

All Smiles

When we started talking about our future together, having kids and a family was equally important to both of us, and we always imagined a large family.

We were able to get pregnant with Henry shortly after getting married and were just thrilled. We assumed we'd be able to continue to grow our family, but after years of trying were told it was very unlikely we'd have another child without fertility treatments. Our journey through these treatments was difficult and trying, but after years of disappointment, we were able to have Flynn, our second child.

Going through fertility treatments taught us how hard it can be to bring a child into the world, and what a precious opportunity each child is for a family. In the end, we wouldn't change the choices we've made, but as we grow our family we have decided adoption is a better option. Closing the door to further fertility treatment was a relief, and has allowed us to open our hearts and minds to adoption. Moving through the adoption process has been a tremendously positive and exciting part of our journey. We can't wait to welcome another child into our family through adoption, and look forward to sharing our joy with a new addition.

Qualities We Love, Admire and Respect in Each Other

The Best is Yet to Come

Kate About Brian: The first time we met I was smitten by Brian's easy smile, approachability, and kindness. I love that he is always learning, whether it be how to cook a new dish, fix an appliance, or solve a difficult professional problem. Brian is ever curious, a quality I love seeing him foster in both our boys. He will gladly take something apart just to show them how it works. Having had the opportunity to work with Brian in a professional capacity I saw firsthand how empathetic and open minded he is when caring for his patients. He is very driven and has set a great career path for himself, but he balances work and home really well. He puts the needs of his family first and spending quality time with me and the boys is his number one priority. Brian is about the best Dad I know, and I feel grateful every day to be on this ride with him.

Brian About Kate: When we first met, I was impressed with Kate's kindness and confidence, as well as her excellent taste in music. As our relationship progressed, I've learned that Kate is an amazing blend of openness and understanding combined with a tireless drive to improve whatever situations she's in. I've never met someone who is so good at both making people feel welcome and comfortable, while still being a catalyst for positive change. This combination makes Kate a wonderful mother- she's able to be both the nurturing, understanding parent who the kids turn to when frightened or upset, but also the one that they (and I) look to to inspire us to be our best selves.

Our Lifestyle

Always Up for a Morning Canoe!

Brian's work schedule is a bit nontraditional as emergency shifts happen on weekends and nights, but we often have weekend days where everyone is off. We usually talk about these in advance, and everyone gets to pick one or two activities to try to fit in.

On a typical day the boys will wake up pretty early and love making pancakes with Brian in our never-ending quest to find the perfect recipe. Kate plays the role of food critic, and she usually gives us high marks while noting that we've used way too many chocolate chips. After a bit of digestion time, we'll often take a family trip to the nearby lake, a short four block walk away. In the summer we kayak and fish on the docks, in the winter we ice fish and ice skate.

We also love having neighborhood friends and family over to play in the backyard and have a BBQ. We feel very blessed to have a wonderful network of people to share in our joy and fun, as well as lend support when needed. Nurturing those relationships is a big part of our lives.

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Digging in the Dunes at Lake Michigan
Digging in the Dunes at Lake Michigan
Having Fun in Puerto Rico
Having Fun in Puerto Rico
Racing Down the Hill
Racing Down the Hill
Hamilton!
Hamilton!
Lots of Laughs Together
Lots of Laughs Together
Sharing Silly Stories
Sharing Silly Stories
Ice Fishing - Lucky Catch!
Ice Fishing - Lucky Catch!
Beautiful Day for a Picnic!
Beautiful Day for a Picnic!
Together is a Wonderful Place to Be
Together is a Wonderful Place to Be
Soccer Practice With Mom
Soccer Practice With Mom
Seconds Before Getting Wet in Lake Mendota
Seconds Before Getting Wet in Lake Mendota
Ready to Go Fishing!
Ready to Go Fishing!
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Digging in the Dunes at Lake Michigan
Digging in the Dunes at Lake Michigan
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Having Fun in Puerto Rico
Having Fun in Puerto Rico
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Racing Down the Hill
Racing Down the Hill
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Hamilton!
Hamilton!
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Lots of Laughs Together
Lots of Laughs Together
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Sharing Silly Stories
Sharing Silly Stories
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Ice Fishing - Lucky Catch!
Ice Fishing - Lucky Catch!
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Beautiful Day for a Picnic!
Beautiful Day for a Picnic!
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Together is a Wonderful Place to Be
Together is a Wonderful Place to Be
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Soccer Practice With Mom
Soccer Practice With Mom
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Seconds Before Getting Wet in Lake Mendota
Seconds Before Getting Wet in Lake Mendota
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Ready to Go Fishing!
Ready to Go Fishing!

Our House and Neighborhood

So Happy to Call This Place Home!

We live in a great neighborhood, which we think is perfect for raising kids. We're urban enough that we park on the street and walk everywhere, but we have loads of old trees, back yards big enough for dogs and a few chickens, and many nature and biking trails readily accessible. We're a short walk from Brian's work, a lake for fishing and boating, the grade school, and several parks and restaurants.

Bike Ride

Our home is from the 1920s, with three bedrooms upstairs for the kids and a great open first floor where we can all be together. We just got a letter from the first child to grow up the house- she described her father who built it and how happy she was to see our kids playing in the yard.

We love our neighbors, and our street is a really nice mix of ages. Our nextdoor neighbors on the right are like an extra set of grandparents for the boys (our oldest has a weekly bird feeding date with them!), and on the left is a family with children similar in age to ours.

One of our favorite neighborhood events is the annual 4th of July parade. All the neighborhood kids decorate bikes and scooters in front of the local ice cream shop and ride for a couple blocks before ending up in the park by the lake, where the fire department shows up to cool everyone off.

Our Extended Families

Flynn's Birthday With Kate's Parents

We are both quite close with our extended families, and both sets of our parents are very excited to welcome an adopted grandchild. Both sets of grandparents have been amazing parenting idols and have wonderful relationships with our kids. We have no doubt that they will both continue to be an important part of our children's lives.

Brian's Family

Kate's mother and father are a 20-minute bike ride away and our boys love having them come by to break our rules regarding treats and bedtimes frequently. Kate has a brother and sister in law who are teachers a few hours away, and are tremendous role models for our children. Her other brother lives in North Carolina with his family, having cousins living on the beach is great for family trips! We host a big traditional Christmas at our house with Kate's extended family, the boys love having a house full of guests to celebrate with, not to mention open presents with!

Brian comes from a big family (he's the oldest of six kids) who all still live in Pennsylvania. Our children love visiting their grandparents on the farm. Our trips out east are always occasion for family reunions with daily visits from Brian's brother Joe, sister Nicole and their young families, as well as his younger siblings who love being the fun aunt and uncle! The annual summer lobster bake, a tradition Brian's dad brought from his upbringing in Maine, is a super fun family tradition.

From Us to You

Thank you for taking the time to get to know a bit about us. We think that you are brave and selfless, and we respect how difficult this decision must be for you. Know that we want what is best for you and your baby.

We met in a children's hospital emergency department 10 years ago, where Brian was working as a resident and Kate was a nurse. It was a strange meeting place, but as we've taken the steps that lead to writing this letter, it is good to remember that our relationship was founded on working together to help kids who needed us. Now, after 7 years of marriage, that foundation still holds true.

Both of us come from big families, and early in marriage we talked a lot about having a large family. We sort of thought we'd just have several kids, but it didn't work out that way. We have had a tough journey building our family so far, and don't take having a child for granted. As we've prepared for adoption we've become very passionate about the opportunity to open our hearts and home to a child who needs it. Our experience in forming our family so far has been both humbling and amazingly joyful. We will bring the spirit of humility and joy to you and your child and the life we will have together.

Our boys are our greatest joy. We love to teach them, learn from them, play with them, and show them the world. We know we have room in our hearts for another child and cannot wait to bring a third baby into our home. As soon as Henry and Flynn came into the world, we knew that our lives were forever changed, and like all good parents realized that we would make any sacrifice for their well being. We've been blessed with a trusting relationship and resources to provide for our children. We know that we are extremely lucky in this regard, and when we put ourselves into your shoes we know that you are already the best type of parent: one who makes a huge sacrifice to do what is best for your child.

Like all parents, we want our kids to grow up happy and well adjusted. For us, this means feeling good about their place in the world and their relationship with their family (us and you), friends, community, coworkers, and their faith. We have a strong focus on faith, learning, and social justice, and will pass these values on to our children as best we are able.

Please know that an adopted child will be an equal member of our family from the second we meet. We've talked to Henry and Flynn, and they couldn't be more excited to have a younger brother or sister. At the same time, we want an adopted child to understand where they come from, and are committed to keeping our relationship with you open, and updating you frequently with letters and pictures. We truly believe that everyone involved will be healthier and happier if we have a trusting and honest relationship with you, and we look forward to opening that door. In our home you will be loved and admired.

With love and gratitude,

Brian & Kate

Favorites

Brian
Kate
Actor
George Clooney
Actress
Diane Keaton
Animal
Sea Otter
Dogs
Author
Tolstoy
Jane Austen
Book
Moby Dick
Pride & Prejudice
Candy Bar
Snickers
Snickers
Cartoon
The Simpsons
Care Bears
Childhood Memory
Playing with brothers and sisters
Vacationing with my family in California
Childhood Toy
Bicycle
American Girl Dolls
Children's Book
Where the wild things are
Where the Wild Things Are
City
Chicago
Chicago
Classic Movie
Caddyshack
Singing in the Rain
Color
Green
Blue
Day of Week
Saturday
Sunday
Dessert
Creme Brule
Ice Cream
Disney Movie
Moana
Dumbo
Dream Car
Whatever Kate is done with
Dream Job
Arborist
Dream Vacation
Climbing Everest
Biking around Belgium
Family Activity
Boating on the lake
Playing outside
Flower / Plant
Fern
Ranunculus
Food
Pizza
Tacos
Form of Exercise
Running
Walking
Fruit
Mango
Peach
Hobby
Cooking
Gardening
Holiday
Christmas
Christmas
Holiday Song
Fairytale of New York
I'll be Home for Christmas
Holiday Tradition
Making Gingerbread Cookies
Ice Cream
Anything with Caramel
Anything Chocolate!
Junk Food
Pizza
Ice Cream
Leisure Activity
Reading
Magazine
The Economist
The New Yorker
Memory with a Child
Henry Learning to Ride a Bike
Memory with Spouse
Backpacking in Glacier National Park
Backpacking across Glacier National Park
Movie
The Royal Tennenbaums
Movie Munchie
Popcorn
Movie Type
Comedy
Musical
Hamilton
Hamilton
Musical Group
Vampire Weekend
Olympic Event
Downhill Skiing
Diving
Personal Hero
Benjamin Franklin
Poet
Keats
Quality about my Spouse
Sense of Humor
Curiousity
Sandwich
Italian Hoagie
Grilled Cheese
Song
Born to Run
Sport to Play
Tennis
Sport to Watch
College Football
Football
Subject in School
History
Superhero
Wonder Woman
Time of Day
Morning
Morning
TV Show
Arrested Development
Vacation Spot
Hawaii
Hawaii

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