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John & Jen

Thank you for taking the time to meet our family. We love playing together and traveling. We spend eight weeks every summer exploring the continent in our campervan. Our love for each other and for the outdoors is something we want to share with our new baby when we welcome them into our family. We are so excited to grow our family through adoption and to watch our love for each other grow with our family.

About Us

John
Jen
Job
Teacher
Teacher
Education
Law Degree
Master's Degree in Education
Children
Willow
Relationship
Legally Married

Why We Chose Adoption

Our Family

We have a 2-year-old daughter named Willow. She is an easy-going kid who is very fun to be around. Willow's favorite toys are baby dolls. She wraps them in blankets, rocks them, and sings to them. She always makes sure they have clothes or a blanket so they won't be cold. Willow loves seeing real babies. When we see a baby she always wants to follow and watch the baby. She will be an amazing big sister!

It took us a long time to bring Willow into the world. After four years of trying everything there was to try, Jen finally got pregnant. We were beside ourselves with excitement and when Willow came into the world, we cherished every moment with her. We felt lucky to have a reason to be up in the middle of the night changing poopy diapers. We have loved it all and we have tried to laugh through the hard times, feeling lucky to have her in our lives. When Willow was born there were serious complications. Although Willow is healthy, the birth was very hard on Jen. In the end, Jen lost her ability to carry children. We love being parents and we feel as though we have so much more love to give in our family. We both grew up with siblings and cousins and were surrounded by a lot of family on a regular basis. We know adoption is the right course for our loving family. We are friends with several families who have adopted children, and we want that same growth of love and happiness for our family as well.

Life Priorities

Our Campervan is Our Home All Summer

Our number one priority in life is spending time together. We have worked to maximize our family time. We are both teachers at the same school, so we are on the same schedule and have the same breaks. We devote our summers to exploring the outdoors together in our eight week-long trips. We built our own campervan to be our summer home. We travel to mountains, rivers, oceans, and to see family and friends. We go backpacking, rock climbing, boating, hiking, and biking. We spend time laughing and playing together for the entire summer and it is wonderful.

Camping Trip to Banff, Canada

We also focus on having quality family time every afternoon, evening, and weekend during the school year. We usually get home from school by 3:30 and devote the rest of the day to having fun together as a family.

On weekends we visit family and friends, go camping, or take our canoe out on nearby crystal clear, spring-fed rivers.

Our main focus is to spend time together. We deliberately made changes in our jobs so we are able to work less and spend more time with our family, which is the most important thing in our lives.

Cultural Diversity

We both teach in a very diverse high school and have students of many different cultures, races, religions, socioeconomic classes, and languages spoken at home. We form strong relationships with our students. We encourage them when they aren't performing to their potential, we congratulate them when they succeed, and we listen to them when they need to talk. We laugh with them, celebrate with them, march with them, worry with them, and cry with them. We love our students. All of our students. As parents, it is important to raise our children to love and celebrate all people for who they are. It is also important to us to raise our daughter with an understanding that her privilege in life necessitates engagement in actions that work towards equity. We want our children to grow up proud of who they are, confident in themselves, kind to everyone around them, and empowered to demand what is right.

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Photos

All Smiles
All Smiles
John & Willow Playing Guitar
John & Willow Playing Guitar
Canoe Trip
Canoe Trip
Jen & Willow Exploring Pueblo Ruins
Jen & Willow Exploring Pueblo Ruins
Reading in the Woods
Reading in the Woods
Backpacking in Jasper National Park in Canada
Backpacking in Jasper National Park in Canada
Enjoying the Beach at Olympic National Park
Enjoying the Beach at Olympic National Park
Jen Enjoys Swimming & Loves Teaching Willow How to Swim
Jen Enjoys Swimming & Loves Teaching Willow How to Swim
Our Family on Christmas
Our Family on Christmas
Dinosaurs at the Science Center
Dinosaurs at the Science Center
Canoe Trip With Family
Canoe Trip With Family
On the Beach in North Carolina
On the Beach in North Carolina
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All Smiles
All Smiles
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John & Willow Playing Guitar
John & Willow Playing Guitar
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Canoe Trip
Canoe Trip
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Jen & Willow Exploring Pueblo Ruins
Jen & Willow Exploring Pueblo Ruins
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Reading in the Woods
Reading in the Woods
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Backpacking in Jasper National Park in Canada
Backpacking in Jasper National Park in Canada
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Enjoying the Beach at Olympic National Park
Enjoying the Beach at Olympic National Park
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Jen Enjoys Swimming & Loves Teaching Willow How to Swim
Jen Enjoys Swimming & Loves Teaching Willow How to Swim
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Our Family on Christmas
Our Family on Christmas
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Dinosaurs at the Science Center
Dinosaurs at the Science Center
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Canoe Trip With Family
Canoe Trip With Family
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On the Beach in North Carolina
On the Beach in North Carolina

Our House and Neighborhood

Our Home

We love living where we live. We have a very diverse group of friendly neighbors. Some of our best friends live right down the street and have small children. Our neighborhood is right next to a huge city park. We live within walking distance of a world-class zoo and we visit so often Willow knows many of the animals by name. We like to go at times when it isn't crowded and we have the animals to ourselves. The park also has miles of hiking and biking trails. We walk, run, or bike there almost daily. There is a great little creek Willow loves to play in on hot days. We live near a wonderful science center, where Willow's favorite display is the huge dinosaurs. We also enjoy visiting the art museum and sledding down the huge hill in front of it when it snows. Our favorite recent exhibit was the Kehinde Wiley exhibit.

Our house is fun and simple. We built a climbing wall and Willow loves climbing on it with us. We have a large backyard with a big garden and fruit trees. It is a nice place to play and we often eat outside.

Our Extended Families

Fun With Cousins

We are lucky to have supportive families who live nearby. They are all very excited for us to welcome another little one into our family. John's sister's family lives a short drive from us. We have dinner with them every Sunday night. Willow loves playing with her cousins and giggles most of the time we are together. Jen's parents live nearby, and watch Willow twice a week during the school year. At their house, we enjoy playing piano, feeding the fish in the outdoor pond, and picking and eating vegetables from the garden. John's parents live a couple of hours away and we visit about every 3 weeks. They live in the country, and we enjoy hiking and biking the miles of trails around their house, swimming in their lake, and exploring the woods. John's mom is a retired kindergarten teacher and she always has fun, educational activities for the kids. We love when the whole family gathers at their house for a weekend or holiday. The seven grandchildren have a great time together making up games, playing outside, and having slumber parties. We meet John's brother's family on a regular basis to do outdoor adventures together. This summer we spent 5 days canoeing in the Boundary Waters in Minnesota. Jen's sister's family lives in North Carolina. We enjoy going to the beach with them and playing in the sand with the kids. We are very close to our parents and siblings and spend a lot of time with them.

Holidays With Family

From Us to You

We are so excited to be connecting with you, and greatly appreciate you taking the time to get to know us a little better. We are simultaneously amazed by your strength, mindful of your unique challenges, and humbled to be meeting you right now.

We met almost twenty years ago, working summer jobs at a camp that allowed us to do two of the things we love the most: work with young people, and do it in an outdoor adventure setting. We formed the early parts of our relationship on riverbanks and long walks, planting the seeds that would grow into the foundation of our lives together. We worked and played through school, jobs, births, weddings, and funerals. We've shared the most formative years of our lives, and feel like we turned into adults together. We've been each other's sources of joy, shoulders to cry on, and source of strength on which we've built our lives and our family.

The day our daughter was born was both the best day and hardest day of our lives. We were so excited to meet and hold our new baby for the first time. Then we faced the fear that Jen might lose her life, and grieved over losing the ability to have more biological children. Through it all we remain so thankful Jen lived, and that we have a happy family. From the moment we met our daughter, Willow, we realized a new level of love was possible that seemed to enter into every part of our lives. We know we have an endless supply of love to grow our family, which is why we are pursuing adoption.

Our family values quality time above all else, and quality time with our family is our favorite thing. We've built our lives around the activities we love to do, from paddling rivers for weeks on end to backpacking with our daughter to mountain passes. In her first three years, our daughter has seen 35 states, and has spent over 150 nights camping. We look forward to our summers, when we explore the country for two months, seeing oceans, redwood trees, mountain lakes, and the deserts of the American Southwest. Even days at home, after a long day of work, generally end with a bike ride together, or a walk in the park.

We've intentionally built the work-life balance we need, which allows us both the time to enjoy our family time and personal passions, while also gaining a sense of personal and professional fulfillment in the service of others. We're both high school teachers, and we both absolutely love it. We love building relationships with young people from every possible background. We love being the person they celebrate with when they accomplish something amazing, and being the person they find when their lives are met with extreme challenges, fears, or uncertainties. We love working with young people to help them achieve their goals, whatever they may be, and we love working with young people to help them expand their own ideas of what they can accomplish. We love meeting every student exactly where they are, wherever they are. Long before we had a child of our own, we had hundreds of kids we loved like our own.

These important relationships have also taught us a great deal about family. We are both beyond fortunate to be part of a family that has taught us how to love, grow, cry, and laugh together. But we've also come to know that our family reaches beyond our family trees. We've come to understand that our family isn't simply who lives in our house, or who we see on Christmas. Our family doesn't all have the same religious practices or skin color. Our family is the entirety of the circle of people we love without end, and we're so excited to add to that family through adoption.

We are excited to grow an open relationship with you, to share pictures, letters, and to visit. You will be an important part of our child's story and you will be honored and loved in our family. We would be happy to meet with you before the birth of your baby.

John & Jen

Favorites

John
Jen
Actor
Michael B. Jordan
Matt Damon
Actress
Meryl Streep
Kerry Washington
Animal
Great Blue Heron
Wolves
Author
John Steinbeck
John Krakauer
Book
Eiger Dreams - Jon Krakauer
Jurassic Park
Candy Bar
Snickers
Kit-Kat
Cartoon
The Simpsons
The Simpsons
Childhood Memory
Going to see the last game Ozzie Smith played in Busch Stadium with my family
Going to my grandparents' farm in the summer with my sister and my cousins
Childhood Toy
Baseball glove
Baby Shivers
Children's Book
A is for Activist
Knuffle Bunny
City
Asheville, NC
Moab, UT
Classic Movie
Meet Me In St. Louis
Willy Wonka & The Chocolate Factory
Color
Green
Purple
Day of Week
Thursday
Saturday
Dessert
Key Lime Pie
Chocolate ice cream with as much chocolate as possible added in and put on top
Disney Movie
The Lion King
Frozen
Dream Car
Tesla
Flying Car
Dream Job
Shortstop for the St. Louis Cardinals
Professional Kayaker
Dream Vacation
New Zealand
Patagonia
Family Activity
Canoeing
Camping
Flower / Plant
Daisy
Hibiscus
Food
Bacon and eggs
Fried chicken
Form of Exercise
Running
Running
Fruit
Strawberry
Peaches
Game
Euchre
Rummy
Hobby
Playing guitar
Art
Holiday
Thanksgiving
Thanksgiving
Holiday Song
Have Yourself a Merry Little Christmas
All I Want for Christmas is You - Mariah Carey
Holiday Tradition
Reading A Little Cowboy's Christmas with my father and now my daughter
Making our own ball to drop on New Year's Eve
Ice Cream
Superman
Chocolate with lots of added chocolate
Junk Food
Nacho Cheese Doritos
Peanut M&M's
Leisure Activity
Reading
Reading
Magazine
Esquire
Outside
Memory with a Child
Holding our daughter the day she was born
Our daughter learning to walk in a campground in Canada
Memory with Spouse
Paddling the Colorado River through Grand Canyon
Completing an Ironman together and being so tired and sore we could barely get ourselves back to our hotel
Movie
Field of Dreams
Jurassic Park
Movie Munchie
Popcorn with lots of butter
Popcorn with lots of butter
Movie Quote
"Yeah, it's the Rockies." - Dumb and Dumber
Movie Type
Suspense
Romantic comedy
Musical
Hamilton
Wicked
Musical Group
Jason Isbell
Brandi Carlile
Olympic Event
200 meter dash
Everything - gymnastics
Personal Hero
Barack Obama
Ruth Bader Ginsburg
Play
Death of a Salesman
Mary Poppins
Poet
Mary Oliver
Mary Oliver
Quality about my Spouse
Sense of adventure
Sense of Humor
Restaurant
Olympia - local Greek restaurant
Felix's (local pizza)
Sandwich
French dip
Pulled pork
Shopping Store
Thrift store
REI
Song
A Change is Gonna Come - Sam Cooke
Rivers and Roads - The Head and the Heart
Sport to Play
Basketball
Basketball
Sport to Watch
Basketball
Basketball
Sports Star
Ozzie Smith
Katie Ledecky
Sports Team
St. Louis Cardinals
St. Louis Cardinals
Subject in School
Economics
Physics
Superhero
Superman
Wonderwoman
Thing to Cook
Pizza
Chocolate cake with peanut butter creme cheese icing
Time of Day
Morning
Sunrise
Tradition
Filling out March Madness tournament brackets
Meeting friends in West Virginia during Memorial Day Weekend
TV Show
The West Wing
The Office
TV Show Character
Tony Soprano
Arya from Game of Thrones
Type of Music
Americana
Americana
Vacation Spot
Grand Canyon
Sawtooth Mountains, Idaho
Video Game
Tetris
Original Nintendo - Adventure Island 3

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