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“What does adoption mean to a child?”

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Alexandra's Adoption Story

A few times in our lives, everyone experiences moments in which they feel such strong emotions that the moment is forever engrained in their memories. My journey with adoption contained many of those moments.

Finding out I was pregnant, a feeling of worry washed over me. How would I provide for a child when my husband doesn’t make much money and I’m just a college student? The worry lasted for months, but then I had a moment in which none of that worry seemed to matter anymore: the moment I read our adoptive parents' profile.

My husband and I had scoured about 100 profiles and nothing felt “right,” but when I came upon Keith and Shannon’s, all I could do was cry. In that moment, I felt relief, and I knew that everything would be okay. I knew I would be a good mom for doing the right thing and pursuing adoption, but in that moment, I knew I would be a great mom for placing our daughter with such amazing people. Since giving birth to our daughter, those feelings have only grown stronger.

She has birth parents who provide her with all the love in their hearts, but even more, in Keith and Shannon she has a mom and dad who double that love and provide her the support that every child deserves — the kind of support that I can only hope to provide to my future children.

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Frequently Asked Questions

Why is American Adoptions the right adoption agency choice for many birth mothers?

American Adoptions is one of the largest licensed adoption agencies in the United States. Each year, we work with thousands of women who are facing an unplanned pregnancy and offer assistance to these women. Our large, caring staff is able to assist you seven days a week and provide you with one-on-one counseling about your pregnancy and available options.

You should choose an adoption agency where you feel completely comfortable with their services and staff. With American Adoptions, you will work with an Adoption Specialist who is on-call 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. The Adoption Specialist will be your advocate and will provide support and guidance as you create an adoption plan that is right for you.

How will the family tell my child about me and the adoption when my child is older?

Each family has their own style of introducing adoption to the child. When you are matched with an adoptive family, you can ask them this question. If you would like your Adoption Specialist to discuss it for you, just let her know. He or she can share your wishes or provide good ideas from other adoptive families.

You will also be able to share what you want your baby to know about you. You can complete a keepsake booklet to share hobbies, stories, photos of you and your family and a letter to your baby. The adoptive family can provide this to your child as he or she grows older. Be as creative as you like! Some birth mothers have even knitted a special blanket as a gift to their baby or given a similar symbol of their love.

The father of your baby can fill out the birth father's keepsake booklet or write a letter too. You may have other family members who would also like to share photos or a letter to the baby. This is your opportunity to pass on your and your family's love and to share your personality, history and reasons for choosing adoption. The adoptive family will treasure whatever information you provide and will share it with the baby at an appropriate age. In most adoptive homes, the word adoption is in the child's vocabulary early on, and adoption is celebrated in their lives.

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