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Father Of The Baby
The father of your baby may or may not be a part of your decision. Whether he is supportive or not, this choice is ultimately yours, and you should do what you feel is best for you and your child.
Remember, adoption laws vary by state, so it is important that you speak with an Adoption Specialist about the laws specific to your state. If the father of your baby is supportive and willing to work with you as a teammate throughout this process, that is the best-case scenario. However, if he is less than supportive of the concept of adoption, do not be discouraged. Though each state has different laws on birth fathers' rights, as long as a professional - like American Adoptions - ensures that everything is carried out according to the law, there is little an unsupportive father can do to stand in the way of what you feel is best.
The articles below discuss the different types of birth father situations. Maybe your situation is like one of these, perhaps you are experiencing a combination of these types, or perhaps what you are going through is not listed at all. In any event, contact an Adoption Specialist at 1-800-ADOPTION if you would like more information about the rights of the father of the baby, or click the following to receive free adoption information.
Father Of The Baby Articles
Birth Fathers: An Introduction
The father of your baby may or may not choose to be a part of your decision-making process. Whether he is supportive or not, you are not alone – many women, just like you, have experienced situations similar to yours!
Birth Father is Supportive
In the event of an unplanned pregnancy, some fathers exhibit wonderfully supportive behavior, and are willing to work as a team with the mother to do whatever both feel is best for the baby’s future.
Birth Father isn't Supportive
Unfortunately, if the father of the baby is displaying less-than-ideal behavior upon finding out that you are pregnant with his child, chances are, he will likely not be supportive of your decision to place your baby for adoption, either.
What About My Responsibilities as the Father?
When it comes to dealing with an unexpected pregnancy, much of the compassion, sympathy and focus is placed on the woman. But what about the father?
What if the Father Doesn't Agree?
Learn more about what happens if the birth father is not supportive of adoption.
Your Baby, Your choice - Dealing with Unsupportive Birth Father, Parents
The bottom line is that adoption is your choice; no one can force you to into parenthood or into having an abortion.
How Do I Tell the Birth Father About My Adoption Plan?
Learn how our agency can help you discuss your adoption plan with the father of the baby.
- The Adoption process: Step by Step
There are seven basic steps of the adoption process - call American Adoptions today at 1-800-ADOPTION to learn more.
- What if the birth father doesn't agree?
Learn more about what happens if the birth father is not supportive of adoption.
- Birth Mother Stories
Adoption stories from mothers who placed their baby for adoption. Learn more about adoption from the unique perspective of mothers who have lovingly chosen to create an adoption plan.
- Why is American Adoptions the right adoption agency choice for many birth mothers?
American Adoptions is one of the largest licensed adoption agencies in the United States. We work with thousands of women each year facing an unplanned pregnancy and offer assistance to women in need. Our large, caring staff is able to assist you 7 days a week and provide you with one-on-one counseling about your pregnancy and the options available to you.
- How much information about the family will be shared with me?
You can share however much or little information about yourself as you feel comfortable sharing. The adoptive family will know your first name, your last name (but only once the child is placed in their care), your medical history and the state that you live in.
- How will the family tell my child about me and the adoption when my child is older?
This is a question that can only be answered by the individual family. Each family has their own style of how to introduce the adoption to the child. When you are matched with your adoptive family, you can ask this question to them. If you would like your Adoption Specialist to discuss it with them for you, just let her know.
- Teen Pregnancy - Information for Young Women
While not every woman who chooses adoption is a young mother, many are. Through adoption, many young women have found an ability to give their babies the best life possible, while finding the opportunity to realize their own dreams, as well. Call American Adoptions today at 1-800-ADOPTION.
- Adoption Glossary
Do adoption terms and phrases leave you feeling confused? Learn the meaning to key adoption words and phrases with our comprehensive adoption glossary.
- Adoption Videos
View videos of real women who choose adoption for their baby as they discuss why they chose adoption and how they feel about their choice today.
