Can You Put Your Child Up for Adoption While in the Military?
Women and men in the U.S. military have found themselves unexpectedly pregnant and unprepared to raise their baby, leading them to ask, “How do I put my baby up for adoption if I’m active duty military?”
If you’re in the U.S. military and considering adoption for your baby, we can help. Whether that’s helping you explore your options or helping you to create an adoption plan that you’re comfortable with for your child, we’re here to provide you with the information, support and resources you need.
Here’s what you need to know about giving your baby up for adoption in the Army, Navy, Marine Corps, Coast Guard or Air Force:
There are Always Options for U.S. Military Members
If you’re facing an unplanned pregnancy in the military, you have three options, just as everyone does:
Not sure that adoption is the right path for you? You can always contact us to receive free information about all of your unplanned pregnancy options, with no obligation to continue with the adoption process. Also consider asking for information at your local military hospital or clinic.
Remember that you always have options. That also extends to parents who are currently raising a child, but no longer feel that they’re able to care for their child. However, if you’re currently raising a child and feel that you’re no longer able to care for him or her, the age of your child may affect which options are available to you. For example, our agency is only able to work with infants and children younger than a few years old, so you may not always be able to place an older child for adoption through our agency. But you may be able to place your child with a trusted friend or family member in a relative adoption, or arrange a temporary guardianship until you can get to a more stable point in your life and you feel more able to parent your child.
Contact us now to learn more about the options that may be available to you in your individual situation.
Choosing Adoption in the Military
You can always choose adoption for your baby if you’re in the U.S. military. You have the right to do what you feel is best for your child, and if you feel that placing him or her with adoptive parents who love them is what’s best, then we’ll help you to find the perfect family.
A few prospective birth parents have asked, “Can you put your child up for adoption while in the military and deployed overseas?” During the planning stages, yes. But if you’re a pregnant woman stationed overseas and are making an adoption plan for your baby with us, you’ll need to return to the U.S. for the birth and placement, so you’ll likely want to make those travel arrangements.
The Adoption Process for U.S. Military Members
The adoption process for active duty military members is the same as it is for any other prospective birth parent. Here’s how giving your baby up for adoption in the Army, Navy or any other branch of the military works:
Step 1: You’ll contact an adoption agency like American Adoptions to make an adoption plan. You’re 100 percent in control of your adoption plan.
Step 2: You’ll choose your baby’s future family. We’ve helped many military families to become parents through adoption, so you can even choose fellow U.S. military men and women to raise your baby, if you prefer. Whatever you’re looking for, we’ll help you find it. You can see some of our waiting families here.
Step 3: You can get to know the adoptive family before, during and after the adoption to whatever extent you feel comfortable with. This can involve phone calls, emails, letters and meeting in person. Nine out of ten birth parents choose to have an open adoption, so that they can continue to have a relationship with their child and their child’s family after the adoption. Again, that’s another option that’s available to you!
Step 4: When your baby is born, you’ll typically need to wait a minimum amount of time before you can legally give your consent to the adoption. That waiting period varies depending on which U.S. state you give birth in. It’s important to understand that adoption is final. When you sign your consent, you’re legally terminating your parental rights and placing your baby with their adoptive parents. A legal representative will be with you at this time to make sure you fully understand everything.
Step 5: After the adoption, remember that you can always seek counseling and emotional support through the military or through American Adoptions if you need help addressing the complicated emotions that birth parents often experience after placement. You can continue to have a relationship with your child and their family if you choose to have an open adoption, and communicate however you’re all comfortable with, even during periods of deployment.
Active duty military members who are considering placing a baby for adoption can always contact us for more information online.
If you’ve wonder what the options were for military members giving kids up for adoption, we can help. How do you get adoption hotline phone number in military? Right here: 1-800-ADOPTION.
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