When Can You Give a Child Up for Adoption?
Most women considering adoption for their baby begin with a lot of questions.
Is adoption right for me? How does the adoption process work? What will my family think of my decision? When can I give my baby up for adoption?
These are all good questions, and it is important to ask each of them. A full understanding of adoption is vital to making the right decision for you and your baby. Here, we’re going to focus on the last question. When can you put a baby up for adoption? It depends on your unique situation.
Adoption could be the best choice for you. We know that, as a mother, you are only trying to do what is right for you and for your baby. This decision is motivated by love, which is why you really shouldn’t think of it as “giving up your baby.” If you choose adoption, you are not giving up — no matter when you make this choice. You are being brave.
So, when can you put a child up for adoption? There are a few different ways to answer that.
When You Know Adoption is Right for You
First things first, you have to know that adoption is right for you. Adoption isn’t a process you can go through half-heartedly. This is a life-changing decision, and it’s worth taking as much time as you need to determine if it’s the best option for you.
You may be wondering if your feelings about adoption are fleeting, or if this is just a difficult season in life. In instances of unplanned pregnancy, feelings like this are more common than you might think. To determine if adoption is truly right for you, you can ask yourself questions like:
Can I support a child financially?
Do I have a partner or family members who will support me?
Do I have the time to care for a child?
Does my living situation make sense for a child?
There are other questions to ask, too. Additionally, you can speak with an adoption professional to get an even better understanding of when to start considering adoption.
Many expectant mothers know right away that they aren’t ready to parent. In these situations, you have two basic options: abortion and adoption. You have the right to choose either, and you should always do what is best for you. Each year, thousands of expectant mothers experiencing an unplanned pregnancy choose adoption to give their baby a chance at life with a loving family.
If you’re asking, “When can I start putting my baby up for adoption?” there’s no point too early in your pregnancy to contact an adoption specialist and begin your process. Even if you’re not completely sure of your adoption decision yet, you can always request more adoption information and speak with an adoption specialist for free; contacting American Adoptions never obligates you to choose adoption for your baby.
You should also know that when you choose adoption, it is always free of cost to you. In fact, you are likely eligible to receive adoption financial assistance for things like your pregnancy-related medical expenses. Beginning the adoption process early in your pregnancy can be a preferable choice, especially if you need financial assistance to keep yourself and your baby healthy throughout your pregnancy.
At the Hospital
It may take longer to decide if adoption is right for you and your baby. You may not know until after birth, when you realize you aren’t ready to parent, but you still have immense love for this newborn. Many mothers in this situation wonder when you can put a baby up for adoption, and if it is too late now that they have given birth.
It’s not too late. Last-minute adoptions, also called pop-up adoptions, happen more frequently than you might think. If you are in this situation and don’t know what to do, call 1-800-ADOPTION to speak with a specialist who will walk you through what needs to happen. When giving a baby up for adoption, it’s important to work with a qualified professional who can help you complete an adoption is a responsible, safe way.
As the Child Gets Older
You may be reading this, scrolling, and still waiting for us to describe your situation. You gave birth, and your child is home. You love your child, and you thought that parenting, even though it seemed impossible, was something you could do. But things have changed, and now you are wondering when you should give up a child for adoption.
If you have an older child — infant, toddler or adolescent — adoption may still be an option for your family. Placing older children for adoption comes with unique challenges, and it will depend on the specific details of your unique situation if it is still a possibility. There are also many resources to help make parenting easier that may be available to you.
Adoption may seem like the best choice for your family, and it’s wise to speak with an adoption specialist about when to start considering adoption with older children. When you call 1-800-ADOPTION, our adoption specialists will help you understand all of your options — not just when you can put a child up for adoption.
If you’re still unsure about adoption, or want to learn more before you make a decision, you can request free information at any time.
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