The relationship between every pregnant woman considering adoption in Texas and the father of her baby is going to be unique. Because each situation is different, you may have the full support of the birth father in the creation of your adoption plan, or you may be wondering if you can pursue adoption without the birth father’s involvement.
Common questions about birth father rights in Texas include:
“Can I give my baby up for adoption without the father’s consent in Texas?”
“Is it still possible to pursue adoption when the father is unknown?”
“Does the birth father have to agree to adoption for me to place my baby?”
The following information may help answer some of your questions about birth father rights in Texas adoptions. If you still have additional questions, you can always call 1-800-ADOPTION to speak to an adoption specialist for free information with no obligation.
Birth mothers who’ve placed a child for adoption with American Adoptions have been:
Married to or in a committed relationship with the father of the baby they placed for adoption
Mothers to other children, who may share a father or who may have separate fathers
On friendly terms with the father of their baby, even if they’re not in a relationship together
In an unhealthy relationship with the father of their baby, which is often a reason why women choose adoption for their child
Unsure of who the father of their baby is
No matter what kind of relationship you have with the biological father of your baby, adoption may still be a viable choice for you in Texas.
Hopefully, the biological father of your child is supportive and helpful with your adoption decision. However, that’s not always the case; sometimes birth fathers are unknown, unsupportive or uninvolved throughout the Texas adoption process.
If you think you may need to consider adoption without the birth father’s involvement in the process, call 1-800-ADOPTION now. You can talk with an adoption specialist about your individual situation so you have a clearer understanding of the options available to you and how you can proceed.
Because every situation is different, it’s most helpful to simply call and discuss what’s going on with someone who can help. Remember, it’s free to call, you’re under no obligation to choose adoption and we’re here 24/7.
While adoption without parental consent in Texas may be possible, it all depends on the individual set of circumstances involved in your current situation.
Pregnant women are usually required to make every possible attempt to let the potential father of their baby know about their adoption decision before moving forward with adoption without consent of the father.
It can seem overwhelming to try to talk to the birth father about such an important decision, particularly if you two have had an emotional past. These are the three best ways to discuss your adoption decision with him:
Ideally, you’d be able to sit down with the birth father or have a phone conversation in a private and calm space. You should come equipped with information to help answer his questions and talk to him about his concerns. Be receptive and respectful of the emotions that he’s experiencing, even if they differ from your own.
If it’s something that you’re comfortable with, you can invite him to get involved in the creation of an adoption plan for your baby. He can help you with many steps of the adoption process, such as choosing adoptive parents.
An in-person meeting isn’t always possible. For some, the additional time and emotional clarity that writing down your thoughts offers is a better way to communicate everything you want to say and stay to the point. Remember to include educational information about adoption for him to read.
It’s helpful to have a trusted person like a close friend or your adoption specialist proofread your letter before you send it to ensure that you haven’t left any information out, or that you didn’t get too wrapped up in your emotions.
It is occasionally necessary for a professional to act as an intermediary for this difficult conversation. This may be the best option if you feel that the conversation would turn into an argument or you feel uncomfortable talking to the birth father on your own.
There are some circumstances where informing the birth father about your adoption plan is not required. If you think you may be in such a situation where adoption without consent of the birth father is necessary, call 1-800-ADOPTION now to ask an adoption specialist if this option is legally possible for your situation.
As a birth father, you have your own role in the adoption process, so it’s important for you to understand all your birth father rights in adoption.
If you are willing to give your consent and be involved in the adoption process:
You might be involved in the adoption plan with the birth mother, or you may create a birth father adoption plan with an adoption specialist by calling 1-800-ADOPTION. This includes working with your baby’s birth mother to select an adoptive family for your child, establishing the level of post-adoption communication that everyone is comfortable with and more.
If there’s a possibility you might be a biological father to a child being placed for adoption in Texas:
Sometimes a pregnant woman is unsure of how to contact the biological father of the child to let him know about the pregnancy or her decision to create an adoption plan, so the father is unaware of the pregnancy and adoption. For these situations, putative fathers may petition to claim paternity through the Texas putative father registry or by filing an acknowledgment or affidavit of paternity with the court.
If you object to the birth mother’s adoption decision:
If you want to contest a birth mother’s decision to place a child for adoption in Texas, you’ll need to legally establish paternity and then also demonstrate a commitment to parenting the child in court, which includes:
Providing fair financial expenses for pregnancy and birth costs
Providing for the child’s physical, financial, educational and emotional needs
Maintaining a parent-child relationship throughout the child’s life
Again, every situation is going to be unique. To learn about what’s possible in your own circumstances and to learn more about birth father rights in Texas adoptions, call 1-800-ADOPTION for obligation-free information now.
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