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Why Self-Matching Still Requires Professional Support
Knowing someone who wants to place is a meaningful start. But even with that connection, adoption is a legal and emotional process that must be handled with care.
National data shows that only 1 out of every 100 women who consider adoption will ultimately choose to place a child. It's important that you connect with a pregnant mom who is more committed to the process and is more likely to have a successful placement. The image below shows where most agencies match their families and where American Adoptions connects families with expectant moms.
Without an agency involved to offer licensed counseling, ethical education, and legal safeguards, families in self-matches often face greater risk, both emotionally and legally. Additionally, using the right agency matters, too.
Connect with an adoption professional about your situation to make sure it is not at risk.
If you’ve already connected with a birth mother, we can step in and ensure the process is legal, ethical, and supported on both sides. With over 13,000 adoptions completed and more than 30 years of experience, we’ve built one of the most trusted full-service adoption programs in the country. That experience matters—especially when the path starts with a personal connection. Take this link to see our complete level of support for your adoption. Here is a breakdown of different adoption paths and professionals and the of support offered. Professional Type Legal Oversight Counseling Support Coordination Support American Adoptions (Full-Service) ✅ Yes ✅ Yes ✅ Yes Family Acting Alone ❌ No ❌ No ❌ No Attorney Only ✅ Limited* ❌ No ❌ No Facilitator or Online Platform ❌ No ❌ No ❌ No A personal connection is a powerful first step, but it doesn’t guarantee a safe or successful adoption on its own. Families acting alone often face disruptions, legal challenges, and emotional setbacks that could have been prevented. At American Adoptions, we combine your connection with our full-service support: licensed counseling, nationwide legal coordination, and step-by-step management of every detail. With over 13,000 adoptions completed in 30+ years, we know how to turn meaningful beginnings into secure, successful placements. Let’s make sure your adoption is not only possible, but protected every step of the way. DisclaimerHow American Adoptions Supports Independent Matches
How Do Different Professionals Support a Self-Match?
One Connection. Full Support
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