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Is It Free to Put a Child up for Adoption?

Putting your child up for adoption is a selfless, heroic and brave decision that gives you and your child a brighter future.  It may not be easy, but, as the saying goes, the best things in life are never easy.

With our help, we’ll guarantee that your adoption process is as smooth and stress-free as can be. You are never alone on this journey, and we’d love nothing more than to help you today. Because of our adoption financial assistance, adoption for you will always be 100% free.

If you would like to get more free information now about our financial assistance program, then contact us online today.

Is It Free to Put a Child up for Adoption?

Yes, putting your child up for adoption is completely free. Our comprehensive services and support will always be 100% free for you. That’s because of our adoption financial assistance program that covers all your fees related to pregnancy and adoption.

But, the amount of financial assistance you’ll receive depends on your state’s laws, as it’s court-mandated. When you work with us, though, we guarantee that you’ll receive as much financial support as possible.
Regardless of your circumstances, adoption is free for birth mothers.

What Costs Are Covered When I Put My Child Up for Adoption?

All costs associated with the adoption and your pregnancy are covered when you put your child up for adoption. Our free support means you can regain control of your life, which allows you to focus on the important aspects of the adoption process, not your bank account.

You can also receive financial support with living expenses, which can include things like:

  • Transportation to medical visits
  • Rent
  • Utilities
  • Groceries
  • Maternity clothing
  • Phone services
  • And more

To learn more about our adoption financial assistance program, fill out our online contact form today.

Why Do Birth Mothers Choose Adoption?

There are plenty of reasons why a birth mother would put her child up for adoption. One of the most common is that it allows you to find some financial stability while giving your child a safe and supported lifestyle. Many people find that it’s the best of both worlds.

Three other common reasons people place a child for adoption include:

1. Financial Insecurity

There’s no doubt that raising a child is expensive. Acknowledging that you’re unable to provide the lifestyle you want for your child is what leads many people to selflessly choose adoption. Because adoption is free for you, you can dedicate all your attention to finding the perfect family for your child.

Birth mother Cori, who worked with our agency, realized that she couldn’t afford to raise her babies. Once she took the time to consider her options, she pursued the adoption process. She received our guidance from start to finish.

“The bills kept adding up, and the mere thought of taking on another child was so daunting and overwhelming that it kept me awake and pacing the floors on a nightly basis,” Cori said. “It has been hard, [and] it will continue to be hard, but every day, when I wake up, I know that he will be OK and he will spend his days in the arms of his loving parents.”

2. An Already Complete Family

Some people put their child up for adoption because their families are already complete and have started raising other children. Providing for another child would place too much emotional and financial strain on their family. If this situation applies to you, then remember that adoption is always an option.

For birth mother Rosa, who pursued adoption through our agency, parenting two children seemed daunting. It may have been a difficult decision, but she knew that it was the best path forward for herself and her children.

“I didn’t have emotional, financial or physical support to have a second baby,” Rosa said. “It was the hardest decision in my life. But, I couldn’t give this baby what she deserves, and I knew for sure she was going to a loving home. It is not hard to know what is best; it is just hard to overcome all of the emotions involved.”

3. Two-Parent Household

Another reason people decide to put their child up for adoption is that they want their child to grow up in a two-parent household. If you were raised by two loving parents, then you might want your child to have that experience, too. By pursuing the adoption process, we can help you find the right parents for your child.

When you work with us, you’ll have access to thousands of waiting family profiles. You can even tailor your search by demographics like age, race and lifestyle. If you’re ready to put your child up for adoption, then we’re always here to be your guide.

Regardless of your circumstances, we can help you put your child up for adoption. To get more adoption information now, fill out our online contact form at any time. We’re looking forward to hearing from you!

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Frequently Asked Questions

Why is American Adoptions the right adoption agency choice for many birth mothers?

American Adoptions is one of the largest licensed adoption agencies in the United States. Each year, we work with thousands of women who are facing an unplanned pregnancy and offer assistance to these women. Our large, caring staff is able to assist you seven days a week and provide you with one-on-one counseling about your pregnancy and available options.

You should choose an adoption agency where you feel completely comfortable with their services and staff. With American Adoptions, you will work with an Adoption Specialist who is on-call 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. The Adoption Specialist will be your advocate and will provide support and guidance as you create an adoption plan that is right for you.

How will the family tell my child about me and the adoption when my child is older?

Each family has their own style of introducing adoption to the child. When you are matched with an adoptive family, you can ask them this question. If you would like your Adoption Specialist to discuss it for you, just let her know. He or she can share your wishes or provide good ideas from other adoptive families.

You will also be able to share what you want your baby to know about you. You can complete a keepsake booklet to share hobbies, stories, photos of you and your family and a letter to your baby. The adoptive family can provide this to your child as he or she grows older. Be as creative as you like! Some birth mothers have even knitted a special blanket as a gift to their baby or given a similar symbol of their love.

The father of your baby can fill out the birth father's keepsake booklet or write a letter too. You may have other family members who would also like to share photos or a letter to the baby. This is your opportunity to pass on your and your family's love and to share your personality, history and reasons for choosing adoption. The adoptive family will treasure whatever information you provide and will share it with the baby at an appropriate age. In most adoptive homes, the word adoption is in the child's vocabulary early on, and adoption is celebrated in their lives.

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