It can be overwhelming to think about what comes next after an unplanned pregnancy.

If you're considering giving baby up for adoption in Oklahoma, you're not alone. Whether you're early in your pregnancy, in the hospital or already parenting, we can help you create a plan for the future that reflects your goals and values.

In this guide, we’ll explain how to place a baby for adoption, what resources are available to you and how Oklahoma adoption laws work. When you’re ready, you can fill out our contact form or call 1-800-ADOPTION to speak with a licensed adoption specialist.

How to Give a Baby Up for Adoption in Oklahoma

Knowing what to expect when putting a newborn up for adoption can give you peace of mind. A clear understanding of the process helps you feel more prepared and confident, especially when facing an emotional decision.

Here's how to place a baby for adoption in Oklahoma.

Step 1: Contact an Adoption Agency

American Adoptions has over 30 years of experience helping women through the adoption process. When you contact us, you’ll be connected with a specialist who understands what you’re going through and will support you every step of the way.

You’re in charge of your adoption journey. We’re here to guide and support your decisions — not make them for you.

Step 2: Create an Adoption Plan

Your adoption plan is a personalized roadmap that reflects your wishes and comfort. It includes:

• The type of family you want for your baby

• How much contact you want before and after the adoption

• Your hospital preferences

Your adoption specialist will make sure everything in your adoption and pregnancy plan is respected.

Step 3: Choose the Perfect Family for Your Baby

You get to choose the adoptive parents who will love and support your child. With American Adoptions, you’ll have access to hundreds of fully screened families. Each one has passed background checks and completed a home study.

You can watch video profiles and browse family bios to help you find the one that feels right. Find your baby's adoptive parents online.

Step 4: Get to Know the Adoptive Family

Open adoption means you can build a connection with the adoptive family before and after placement. Getting to know the family personally can help you feel confident in your decision.

Ways you might connect include:

• Phone or video calls

• Texts, emails or social media

• In-person meetings or time together at the hospital

Your adoption specialist can help guide and support these conversations.

Step 5: Complete the Legal Steps for Adoption

When it's time to give birth, your medical costs will be fully covered. You’ll follow a custom hospital plan that reflects your preferences.

Once you're ready, you’ll sign the legal paperwork to complete the adoption. Your adoption specialist and attorney will make sure you understand your rights.

Remember: Adoption doesn't end at placement. Open adoption allows you to continue building a relationship.

What if My Baby Is Already Born?

It's never too late to choose adoption for your baby. Whether you’re still at the hospital, already home or have been parenting for a few months, adoption is still an option.

Call 1-800-ADOPTION to speak with an adoption specialist who can help you make a plan. You shouldn't feel limited by your situation or circumstances if you’re giving a baby up for adoption at birth.

Free Adoption Services You May Not Know About in Oklahoma

Does putting your baby up for adoption cost money? No, adoption is completely free for expectant parents. American Adoptions offers various services at no cost to you, including:

We know how emotional this decision is, and you shouldn’t have to go through it alone. You deserve support throughout every step.

Do You Get Paid for Giving Your Baby Up for Adoption in Oklahoma?

You can’t get paid for adoption, but you can receive financial assistance during your pregnancy. Oklahoma law allows for the following covered expenses:

• Rent and utilities

• Food and basic necessities

• Maternity clothes

• Transportation (gas, bus fare, temporary car use, etc.)

• Medical care for you and your baby

• Childcare during medical appointments

• Legal fees

• A one-time gift of up to $100 from the adoptive family

Support can continue up to two months after placement, depending on your needs and court approval.

Learn more about adoption financial assistance.

Is it Wrong to Give My Baby Up for Adoption?

Many women wonder, "Did you regret giving your baby up for adoption?" or "How will I react to giving my baby up for adoption?" These are real, valid questions.

Adoption is a brave, selfless choice — not something to be ashamed of. It’s okay to feel uncertain. But many women also feel peace, knowing they made the best choice for themselves and their children.

When you choose adoption, you’re choosing opportunity, love and stability for your child.

How to Choose an Adoptive Family in Oklahoma

You get to decide who will raise your child. When choosing an adoptive family, consider what’s most important to you.

• Do you want your child to have siblings?

• Is a two-parent household important to you?

• Are shared values, religion or culture important?

• Do you want an open adoption with ongoing contact?

With American Adoptions, you have access to hundreds of waiting families across the U.S. Every family is ready for open adoption.

Start viewing family profiles.

Adoption at the Hospital: How Do You Make a Hospital Plan?

Your hospital plan outlines everything that happens during labor and delivery. You decide:

• Who is with you in the delivery room

• How much time you spend with your baby

• What role the adoptive family plays at the hospital

We work directly with hospital staff to make sure your wishes are respected. Your adoption specialist will be there to support you.

What About the Birth Father?

You might wonder if you can give your baby up for adoption without the father's consent. Here’s what you need to know in Oklahoma

• If the birth father is not married to you, he must take legal steps to establish paternity.

• The birth father’s consent is generally required.

• He can give consent before or after the birth, and Oklahoma allows notarized (extrajudicial) consent.

• The court may not require his consent if he hasn’t supported you or the baby for 12 of the past 14 months, or if he has abandoned, abused or neglected the child.

Every situation is different, so it’s important to be honest with your adoption specialist. We’ll help you connect with legal support.

Learn more about birth father rights in adoption in Oklahoma.

More Oklahoma Adoption Laws You’ll Need to Know About

Here are a few additional state laws to keep in mind.

• Birth mothers cannot sign consent until after the baby is born.

• Consent must be voluntary, informed and notarized or witnessed in court.

Your adoption specialist and attorney will guide you through each step of the legal process.

Ongoing Support After Giving Baby Up for Adoption

Support doesn’t stop after placement. Here’s what we offer:

• Post-Placement Counseling: You can receive counseling services for up to six months after placement to help you process your emotions and begin healing.

• Open Adoption Support: You’ll have ongoing open adoption support to maintain your relationship with the adoptive family and your child.

• Continued Financial Help: You may receive financial assistance for up to two months after placement if approved by the court.

You can always reach out to your adoption specialist for support or questions.

Is Giving My Baby Up for Adoption in Oklahoma Right for Me?

Only you can determine the right path forward for you and your baby. It can help to consider the pros and cons of giving a baby up for adoption. Here are some points to consider:

Adoption can give you and your baby a brighter future. If you're ready to move forward with your journey, you can contact an adoption specialist today or call 1-800-ADOPTION.

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