Adopting a baby in Delaware is a big decision. You may be dreaming of holding your child for the first time while also wondering how the adoption process works.

It’s normal to have questions. Maybe you’ve already explored other paths to parenthood. Or maybe adoption has always been your first choice. Wherever you're at, this guide will give you the clear, reliable information you need.

We’ll walk you through each step of the adoption process, break down the timeline and show you how American Adoptions can support you at every stage. Fill out our form today to get more free information.

How to Adopt a Baby in Delaware: 5 Steps to Parenthood

Adoption can be the path that finally brings your dreams of parenthood to life.

At American Adoptions, we’ve helped thousands of families complete their adoption journeys. Our team is here for you every step of the way.

Step 1. Contact an Adoption Agency

To get started, you need the right professionals by your side. A full-service agency like American Adoptions can guide you from your first questions all the way through finalization.

Our specialists handle every part of the process, including screening, advertising, matching, counseling and legal coordination. We’ll support you emotionally and logistically so you can focus on becoming a parent.

Start your journey today by contacting us online.

Step 2. Become an Active Family

Once you’ve chosen an agency, you’ll take a few important steps:

• Adoption Planning Questionnaire: This helps your specialist understand your preferences for adoption situations.

• Adoption home study: A licensed professional will evaluate your home environment, complete background checks and conduct interviews.

• Adoptive family profile: We’ll help you create a video and print profile that showcases your story to expectant parents.

These steps ensure that you're fully prepared and eligible to move forward with adopting a baby in Delaware.

Step 3. Be Chosen by a Prospective Birth Mother

In private adoption, it's the expectant parents who choose your family. They may want to get to know you through phone calls, texts or even in-person meetings.

If she’s interested in an open or semi-open adoption, this relationship can continue after placement through a post-adoption contact agreement. It’s a chance to build trust and connection that benefits everyone, especially the child.

Step 4. Meet Your Baby

As the due date approaches, you’ll receive updates and guidance. If invited, you may be present for the birth. In other cases, you’ll meet your child at the hospital after delivery.

We coordinate everything with the hospital and provide support for you and the expectant mother.

Step 5. Finalize the Adoption

After placement, the final legal step is adoption finalization. This typically happens a few months later in a Delaware family court.

During finalization, a judge reviews your case and issues the final decree of adoption. After that, your child becomes an official member of your family.

Who Can Adopt a Baby in Delaware?

Adoption requirements are designed to protect everyone involved and ensure the best outcomes for children. At American Adoptions, our criteria include:

• Married for at least two years

• Between 25 and 50 years old

• No more than two existing children in the home

Learn more about Delaware’s adoption requirements.

How American Adoptions Supports You: Why Families Trust Us

With over 13,000 successful adoptions, American Adoptions is one of the most experienced, trusted agencies in the U.S. Our team is here to support you with:

Understanding Adoption Costs in Delaware

Are you wondering, "How much does it cost to adopt a baby?" Typical adoption costs include:

• Agency fees

• Legal and court fees

• Advertising and matching services

• Expectant parent living expenses (learn more)

• Prenatal and delivery medical costs

We provide detailed cost estimates and help you plan financially. Additionally, we offer a Risk-Sharing Program to protect your investment in case of disruption. If that happens, we'll refund 100% of post-activation costs.

Worried About Affording Adoption? You Have Options

It’s normal to ask, "How can I afford adoption?" We’ll help you explore options like:

• Adoption grants and scholarships

• Low-interest loans

• Employer-provided adoption benefits

• Fundraising support

• The federal adoption tax credit

• And more

We're here to help you navigate adoption financing so you can move forward with confidence.

How Long Does it Take to Adopt a Baby in Delaware?

Wait times vary depending on your openness and preferences. However, our national advertising efforts give you more opportunities. Our wait time is average of 12 months.

Why It’s So Important to Complete Your Home Study Early

Completing the adoption home study gives you official approval to adopt. It includes:

• Background checks

• Document collection

• Home safety inspection

• Interviews with all household members

Even though we’re not licensed to complete home studies in Delaware, we can connect you with trusted local providers.

Find a Delaware home study professional.

When Is Adoption Finalized in Delaware?

In Delaware, adoption finalization typically occurs several months after placement in family court. After the final hearing, the judge issues the final decree and your child becomes a legal member of your family.

Learn more about adoption finalization in Delaware.

Other Adoption Laws in Delaware

Delaware has a few important laws to keep in mind:

• Indian Child Welfare Act (ICWA): This federal law is designed to protect the best interests of Native American children and promote the stability of Native American tribes and families. Learn more

• Interstate Compact on the Placement of Children (ICPC): This is an agreement between all 50 states that ensures legal and safe placements of children across state lines. Learn more

• Post-Adoption Contact Agreements: These agreements outline ongoing communication between adoptive families and birth parents. In Delaware, these agreements are legally enforceable under certain conditions.

Explore Delaware's adoption laws.

Adoption Attorneys Near Me

An adoption attorney plays a crucial role in ensuring all legal requirements are met during the adoption process.

One professional in our trusted network is:

• Law Offices of Deborah E. Spivack (Wilmington): Deborah Spivack is a member of the American Academy of Adoption and Assisted Reproductive Attorneys (AAAA) and is licensed to practice in Delaware. Her practice is devoted exclusively to adoption and assisted reproductive technology law. She has successfully handled more than 1,000 adoptions in Delaware, Pennsylvania and New Jersey.

Different Types of Adoption in Delaware and How They Compare to Private Adoption

There are a few different types of adoption you might consider:

• Private domestic adoption (like with American Adoptions)

• Foster care adoption

• International adoption

Each path has unique timelines, costs and outcomes. See how they compare:

FAQ About Adopting a Baby in Delaware

Can birth mothers change their mind in Delaware?

Yes. A birth parent may revoke consent within 60 days of the adoption petition being filed. The court will decide whether to approve the revocation. Read more.

Is there an adoption tax credit in Delaware?

No. Delaware doesn’t offer a state tax credit, but you can still claim the federal credit.

Is it hard for a gay couple to adopt a baby?

No. At American Adoptions, we welcome LGBTQ+ families.

Are adoptive parents on the birth certificate in Delaware?

Yes. After finalization, adoptive parents are listed on the amended birth certificate. It could take a few weeks to a few months to process.

Are open adoptions legally enforceable in Delaware?

Yes. In Delaware, open adoption agreements can be legally enforceable under specific conditions. If both parties agree to the terms and the court finds the arrangement is in the child’s best interests, the agreement may be upheld.

Don’t Wait Any Longer — Adopt a Baby in Delaware Today

Becoming a parent through adoption is one of the most meaningful journeys you’ll ever take. And you don’t have to do it alone. We’re here to help you every step of the way.

Fill out our form to talk with an adoption specialist today.

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