Can You Give a Child Up for Adoption in a Different State?
How People From Another State Can Adopt Your Baby
As a woman considering adoption, you want to find the perfect adoptive family for your baby. But what if that family lives in another state?
If this is your situation, you probably have a few thoughts on your mind:
Can you give a child up for adoption in a different state?
Can people from another state adopt my baby?
I want to give my child up for adoption someplace out of state — is that even possible?
The answers to all these questions are yes. With American Adoptions, you are not limited to hopeful parents in your own state or hometown. As a national agency, we work with waiting families across all 50 states to ensure you can find the perfect one for your child — regardless of where they live. You can start searching through these families today by calling 1-800-ADOPTION.
You may be wondering exactly how these interstate adoptions work before, during and after placement. Here, learn more about the process of how you can put a child up for adoption in a different state with the perfect adoptive parents.
How Can People From Another State Adopt My Baby?
For expectant mothers, the adoption process is not much different for interstate adoption placements. Regardless of where you and the prospective adoptive parents live, you will still have an opportunity to make your own adoption plan, determine your preferences for an adoptive family, review waiting families’ profiles and choose the right one for your child.
There are a few steps involved in giving a child up for adoption in a different state:
Step 1: Find adoptive parents.
Many prospective birth mothers who work with American Adoptions end up finding a family from another state during their adoption process. Some plan to place their child in another state to give themselves distance in their adoption relationship, while others simply find a family who meets all of their other preferences and just happens to live out of state.
As you create your adoption plan, your adoption specialist will help you determine what you wish for in adoptive parents for your child. If you tell her, “I want to give my child up for adoption someplace out of state,” she will only present families that meet this requirement. You can even choose which state you want your baby to grow up in.
Your adoption specialist will present profiles of adoptive families to you, and you will decide which ones you want for your child. You can decide that people from another state can adopt your baby — or you can change your mind and select a local family instead. The choice is always up to you!
Step 2: Get to know the family through pre-placement contact.
No matter how much distance may separate you, you will have the opportunity to grow close with the adoptive parents through mediated phone calls, the exchange of email, and more. Your adoption specialist will always mediate the first conversation between the adoptive parents and you, to make sure you are comfortable with the match. You can choose to continue that contact mediation moving forward, or you can conduct a direct relationship with them — whatever your preferences are.
If you want to meet the family in person, American Adoptions can even arrange for a visit with them in your hometown. Many adoptive parents are thrilled at the opportunity to get you know you and where you are from before you give birth, and an in-person meeting can help alleviate some of the unknowns that come from working with a family in a different state.
Step 3: Meet the adoptive family at the hospital.
When your baby is born, the adoptive parents you choose will travel to the hospital for placement. Every adoptive family who works with American Adoptions knows that their baby could be born anywhere, at any time, and they will be willing and ready to travel at a moment’s notice — no matter how far away they may live. If you wish to, you can even communicate with the adoptive parents ahead of time to ensure they are there for your estimated due date.
Step 4: Ensure the adoption is completed safely.
Before the adoptive family can return to their home state with the baby, they will need to go through a paperwork process to satisfy the Interstate Compact on the Placement of Children (ICPC). This allows officials in your home state and the family’s home state to review the adoption and ensure your baby is going to a safe home. When you work with American Adoptions, you can be sure that professional adoption specialists will look out for your baby’s safety during every step of this legal process.
During the adoptive family’s ICPC wait, you can spend more time getting to know them and seeing your baby, if you’re comfortable doing so, before they return back to their home state. Many members of out-of-state adoption triads find this an invaluable time to build a strong relationship.
Step 5: Continue your relationship with post-placement contact.
If you choose to have an open adoption, you can stay in touch with your child and the adoptive parents for years to come — whether that family lives close or far from you.
No matter the distance, you have the right to an open adoption that looks the way you want it to, whether it includes photos, emails, texts, phone calls or more. If you want to have future visits with your child, you will be matched with an adoptive family who is willing and able to travel to you for those visits.
Know this: You can “give up” a child for adoption in a different state and still maintain the kind of open adoption relationship you want. American Adoptions will always be here to help.
Whether you already know hopeful parents across state lines or need help searching the country for an adoptive family, American Adoptions can provide the guidance and services you need to safely place your baby with hopeful parents in any state.
If you are thinking, “I need help with adoption for my baby out of state,” please contact an adoption specialist today at 1-800-ADOPTION. Your call is free, confidential, and does not obligate you to proceed with an adoption plan.
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