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Is It Too Late to Put My 3-Month-Old up for Adoption?

Realizing that you’re not ready for parenthood takes tremendous strength. You’re making the selfless decision to place your child’s needs before your own. Adoption is a difficult choice to make, but, as the maxim goes, the best things in life are never easy.  

With our full-service support, you’ll complete your adoption process with complete confidence, knowing your baby will be loved unconditionally by an adoptive family of your choosing.

To get more adoption information now, contact us online at any time. We are always here for you whenever you need us.

Is It Too Late to Put My 3-Month-Old Up for Adoption?

No, it is not too late to put your 3-month-old up for adoption. You still have plenty of time to build an adoption plan, receive financial assistance and choose the right family for your baby. Our free services and comprehensive support can help you complete your entire adoption journey.

Does It Cost to Put My 3-Month-Old Up for Adoption?

No, adoption is always free for prospective birth mothers. That’s because you’ll receive adoption financial assistance that covers all your adoption-related expenses. Although you technically aren’t “paid” when you place a 3-month-old for adoption, you’ll never have to worry about paying for it out of your own pocket.

Birth mother Sarah, who worked with our agency, reflects on how our financial assistance made the process as smooth and straightforward as possible. It gave her the chance to focus on the more important steps of the adoption process, rather than her bank account.

“It really made a huge difference in my life and made the whole process so much less stressful,” Sarah said. “Any time I had a medical bill, all I had to do was scan it in and send it over. I was extremely grateful to have everything taken care of. Having help was critical in me being able to do it stress-free.”

How Long After Having a Baby Can You Give It Up for Adoption?

You can put your baby up for adoption at any time. Adoption is still available to you, whether you’ve just given birth or have been parenting for several months. Our agency will help you create an adoption plan based on all your needs and preferences.

When you’re ready to put your 3-month-old up for adoption, we will walk you through each and every step of your adoption journey. We are here to provide you with all the support that you deserve.

How to Put Your 3-Month-Old Up for Adoption [5 Steps]

Every adoption journey is different. So, giving your 3-month-old up for adoption will be unique depending on your circumstances. Once we learn more about your situation and needs, you’ll begin the adoption process. Generally speaking, this consists of five steps:

Step 1: Choose an Adoptive Family

As the prospective birth mother, you get to choose the perfect adoptive family for your baby. Whether you picture your child living in the suburbs, city or somewhere in the country, you’ll always have a say in where your child goes. You are in full control of your adoption journey from start to finish. That includes selecting the best family for your child.

Whatever lifestyle you have imagined for your baby, we’ll help you find the perfect match. To begin your search now, contact us online at any time.

Step 2: Determine the Type of Adoption Relationship You Want

Giving your 3-month-old up for adoption never has to mean “goodbye.” Rather, think of it as simply “see you later.” By choosing open adoption, you’ll be able to stay in touch with your child and the family for years to come. You can also choose the type of communication you use to maintain contact with them.

For example, many open adoption relationships revolve around:

  • Email
  • Text messages
  • Phone calls
  • Zoom or Skype
  • Handwritten letters
  • In-person visits
  • Or whatever you feel comfortable with

Step 3: Receive Financial Assistance

When you put your 3-month-old up for adoption, you’ll receive financial assistance that will cover 100% of your adoption-related fees. On top of this, you can receive help with living expenses like:

  • Rent
  • Utilities
  • Medical expenses
  • Legal fees
  • Maternity clothing
  • Transportation to doctor’s appointments
  • Groceries

Every state has its own laws regarding the amount of financial assistance you’re eligible for. Make sure you have a thorough understanding of what you’ll qualify for in your state. We’ll also coordinate legal services to ensure you receive the maximum amount of financial assistance allowable.

Step 4: Complete the Official Paperwork

Like any type of legal form, signing adoption paperwork can feel daunting at first. But, don’t worry; you are not alone. We’re here to walk you through the entire process. We’ll answer all your questions so that you can fill out these papers with complete confidence.

Before you put your 3-month-old up for adoption, you’ll need to sign your consent for the adoption. In most cases, there’s a waiting period of between one and three days before you can sign these papers. This is to ensure you are 100% confident that adoption is right for you and your baby.

Also, there’s a revocation period, during which you’ll be able to change your mind after signing the consent forms. But, that timeframe varies based on what state you live in. The adoption attorney we provide you with can explain all this in detail, too.

Step 5: Adjust to Your New Life as a Birth Parent

Now that placement is complete, you can pursue any lifelong goals and ambitions you’ve always dreamt of achieving. Whether that’s continuing your education or applying for your dream job, adoption makes that a possibility. You can rest easy knowing that you’ve given your baby a bright future with a loving adoptive family that you hand-picked for them.

This marks the beginning of a new chapter for you and your child alike.

Regardless of your circumstances, giving your 3-month-old up for adoption is always possible. If you’d like to get more free information now, then fill out our online contact form today.

 

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Frequently Asked Questions

Why is American Adoptions the right adoption agency choice for many birth mothers?

American Adoptions is one of the largest licensed adoption agencies in the United States. Each year, we work with thousands of women who are facing an unplanned pregnancy and offer assistance to these women. Our large, caring staff is able to assist you seven days a week and provide you with one-on-one counseling about your pregnancy and available options.

You should choose an adoption agency where you feel completely comfortable with their services and staff. With American Adoptions, you will work with an Adoption Specialist who is on-call 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. The Adoption Specialist will be your advocate and will provide support and guidance as you create an adoption plan that is right for you.

How will the family tell my child about me and the adoption when my child is older?

Each family has their own style of introducing adoption to the child. When you are matched with an adoptive family, you can ask them this question. If you would like your Adoption Specialist to discuss it for you, just let her know. He or she can share your wishes or provide good ideas from other adoptive families.

You will also be able to share what you want your baby to know about you. You can complete a keepsake booklet to share hobbies, stories, photos of you and your family and a letter to your baby. The adoptive family can provide this to your child as he or she grows older. Be as creative as you like! Some birth mothers have even knitted a special blanket as a gift to their baby or given a similar symbol of their love.

The father of your baby can fill out the birth father's keepsake booklet or write a letter too. You may have other family members who would also like to share photos or a letter to the baby. This is your opportunity to pass on your and your family's love and to share your personality, history and reasons for choosing adoption. The adoptive family will treasure whatever information you provide and will share it with the baby at an appropriate age. In most adoptive homes, the word adoption is in the child's vocabulary early on, and adoption is celebrated in their lives.

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