Can I Place my 11-Month-Old for Adoption?
Why Choosing Adoption is Always an Option
Thinking about adoption for your 11-month-old can make you feel stressed and anxious. After all, when your child is almost a year old, it may seem like adoption isn’t even an option. But you should know that no matter how old your baby is, adoption will always be a choice you can explore.
While some women know right away that adoption is the right choice for them, we know that adoption isn’t every woman’s initial plan. We also know that adoption isn’t an overnight decision, and that you’ve likely spent many hours considering it.
If you have a strong feeling that adoption is the right decision for your 11-month-old, call 1-800-ADOPTION today to receive free information. You’ll be able to speak with a trained adoption professional that can provide invaluable insight into adoption for an 11-month-old with no obligation to choose adoption.
What are Some Reasons Women Choose Adoption for an 11-Month-Old?
There are many unique reasons why a woman would consider adoption for her 11-month-old. Here are just a few of the reasons as to why she might make this brave and selfless decision:
- She doesn’t have enough help financially: Because parenting can be stressful, it’s not uncommon for a woman to turn to adoption due to financial strain. You have to pay for the necessary expenses — like food, clothing, and a safe environment for you and your baby — on top of unexpected life expenses.
- She wants to pursue her own dreams: While parenting can be a wonderful and fulfilling experience, having an unplanned pregnancy can cause you to put your passions on hold. Choosing adoption while you continue working toward your goals, whether that’s a dream career or to finish your education, may be the best option in order to create a better life for yourself.
- The birth father might not be involved: All prospective birth mothers have a unique relationship with their baby’s birth father. We hope that all birth fathers are supportive and involved in their child’s life, but that’s not always the case. If you have become a single mother and you’re not sure who to turn to, remember that adoption is always an option.
- She wants to provide a better life for her child: Often, our conversations about adoption center on the idea of “giving up” your child. But this couldn’t be more untrue. Women who choose adoption are not “giving up” or “giving away” their babies; they’re making a hard decision out of pure love for their child to give them the best gift of all — a better life.
There are so many more reasons why a woman would choose adoption. Each one of them is valid and unique. If you’re considering adoption for an 11-month-old, just remember that you’re never alone and that adoption is always an option for you.
What Does an Adoption for an 11-Month-Old Look Like With American Adoptions?
Whether you’re placing a newborn, or considering adoption for an 11-month-old, the process is very similar, with just a few differences:
- Step 1: Contact American Adoptions and make a plan. You’ll start by calling 1-800-ADOPTION to speak with an adoption specialist. At that point, you’ll be able to fill out a social and medical history form for yourself and your baby. This will give your adoption specialist a good understanding of your situation. You’ll also create your adoption plan, which will explain your preferences in an adoptive family, your open adoption relationship and more.
In addition to this important information, your adoption specialist will also ask you for:
- A copy of your child’s birth certificate
- Who is listed as the father on your child’s birth certificate
- Medical records for your child
- Information on where the child has lived from birth to present
- Who has had custody or care of the child from birth to present
- Information on who has provided financial and emotional support for this child from birth to present
- Documentation of child support from any father
- Step 2: Choose adoptive parents. Once your adoption specialist has a good understanding of your needs, you’ll be sent a list of different adoptive family profiles to look through. This process can take some time, so don’t worry if you don’t find a family right away.
- Step 3: Get to know the adoptive family and lay the foundation for open adoption. Once you’ve found the right family for your baby, you’ll start getting to know each other through pre-placement contact. This may include phone calls, email and whatever forms of contact you’re most comfortable with, as well as in-person visits to help your baby transition. After you’ve gotten to know each other, you’ll then decide how much contact you’d like to have after the adoption. Contact is determined on a scale of openness, so you can have as much or as little as you’d like.
- Step 4: Legally place your baby for adoption. After everything is ready, you’ll be able to sign your consent to the adoption. This very last step signs away your parental rights and without it, an adoption cannot proceed. Your adoption specialist and adoption attorney will make sure you understand all of your legal rights in an adoption before you sign.
If you have any additional questions about what the adoption process will look like for you, don’t be afraid to contact your adoption specialist.
Next Steps in Adoption for an 11-Month-Old Baby
Hopefully, this article helped answer some of your questions about adoption for an 11-month-old. We know that you likely have many more questions about the adoption process, however. If you believe you’re ready to create an adoption plan, or if you’d like to receive free information, call 1-800-ADOPTION today to speak with one of our specialists or request free information online. You won’t be obligated to choose adoption for an 11-month-old, but our specialists will help you get started if you decide that it’s the right decision for you.
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