Are Babies that are Given Up for Adoption Always Adopted?
Why There is Always a Loving Family for Every Baby
Many pregnant women who are considering placing their baby for adoption worry, “Are babies that are given up for adoption always adopted?” That fear may come from a misunderstanding of the adoption process, or a concern that something like a health issue with their baby could affect his or her chances or being adopted by a loving family.
All prospective birth parents want the best for their baby. You want your baby to be raised by kind and loving parents, and you want him or her to have the best life possible. After all, that’s why you’re making the difficult and loving choice to place them for adoption! But, you wonder, what if they aren’t adopted? What if nobody adopts your child and they don’t have that life you want for them?
The Difference Between Private Adoption and Foster Care
When you place your baby through an adoption agency like American Adoptions, your baby is always adopted. They are always loved. He or she will be placed directly with a family who has been waiting for and dreaming of this child.
In adoption, you’re voluntarily placing your baby for adoption. You choose:
Your adoption professional
Your baby’s adoptive parents
How much contact you want to have with the adoptive family before, during and after the adoption
How you want your time in the hospital for the delivery to go
Some prospective birth parents worry, “How many kids who are given up for adoption get placed into foster care?” The answer is: none. When you contact an adoption agency to make a voluntary adoption plan, they’ll work with you to choose waiting adoptive parents who you feel are right for your baby. This means that your baby never goes into state custody, and that he or she is never waiting to be adopted. When your baby is born, you can place him or her directly into their parents’ arms.
In foster care adoptions, a child has been removed from their home involuntarily. This means:
Children in foster care are usually placed into temporary care while waiting to be reunited with biological family members
If children are unable to be reunited with biological family, they’ll become eligible for adoption through foster care
Many children, especially kids who are older, part of a bonded sibling group or who have special needs, may struggle to be placed with a permanent adoptive family from their temporary foster care placement
You’ve probably heard about children in foster care who wait years to be adopted by a permanent family. Likewise, you’ve probably heard about how many children go without getting adopted from foster care before they turn 18.
Placing a child for adoption with an agency is not like that, fortunately. When you work with a private adoption agency like American Adoptions, your child will have permanent adoptive parents waiting for them.
Your child will never be placed into foster care, and they’ll always have a “forever family.”
You Always Choose the Adoptive Family with American Adoptions
Prospective birth parents are the ones who call all the shots in the adoption plan, including choosing adoptive parents. What are you looking for in potential parents for your baby? We can help you find the family that’s right for your child. Here’s how:
You’ll talk with your adoption specialist about the kind of family you envision for your child.
Your specialist will show you profiles of waiting parents who match what you’re looking for.
You can get to know the family of your choosing better through a conference call.
You’ll be able to continue communicating with the adoptive family up until the delivery as much as you both feel comfortable with.
You can have the adoptive parents as involved as you’d like them to be at the birth of your baby, and they’ll be there to support you and welcome the baby.
You can choose to have an open adoption with the adoptive family, so you can always stay in touch.
Not only do children given up for adoption get placed into a family, they’re immediately placed with a family who has been wishing and waiting for them! And you’re the one who chooses that family.
By Choosing Adoption, You’re Choosing a Lifetime of Love for Your Baby
Placing a baby for adoption through an agency is different than a foster care adoption. Your baby will immediately be placed with their “forever family.”
If you’ve ever had a fear about putting a child up for adoption but nobody would adopt them, you can rest easy. There are hundreds of waiting parents who have been dreaming of meeting you and welcoming your child into their family. View some of their profiles here, or contact us to see more profiles of potential families for your baby.
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